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https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/boy_to_boy/

Since you seemed to have liked Lost in the clouds, you might like this one. Was pretty sad to me and interesting

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My lists are nothing but nightmares and angst and some fluff haha but this one hella angst: https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/doronuma/

You know what I just reread that, don’t fucking read that shit. The rapist throws scolding water on him and rapes him and the ML calls his hole loose after being raped for two months and dude was jacking off to the initial rape video the rapist sent him. That shit going on my nightmare list fr cause wtf is that.

LMFAOOOOOOOO

I'm sorry your feeling this way. Perhaps you can start a workout regimen that will help you obtain the body you want to be. Each day you do something is another day of progress. Instead of continuing to feel horrible, use those emotions to power you to change for the better.

Hey I hear you. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it’s not easy. It can be so mentally draining to constantly have weight and body image in the back of your mind. You can never truly enjoy anything with the constant thoughts, it’s horrible. You most likely just needed to vent on here and don’t need advice, but sincerely you will never be happy with this mindset. When most do end up hitting that “goal” weight, they either don't get the satisfaction you were looking for, bounce back because it’s unattainable or just end up seriously ill. I say this from experience of seeing a loved one go through it. I really hope that you realize how beautiful you already are, even though your mind may be playing tricks. You are at a healthy weight and you need to eat to continue to stay healthy. Please don’t restrict yourself. It will get better

I’m so sorry to hear that, I know exactly how that feels. The most important thing is gaining self confidence and learning to love yourself—which, unfortunately, isn’t as easy as one would hope. Back when I hated myself the most, I thought losing weight was what would get me to love myself, but I weighed only a bit heavier than I do now. I look like a different person now though because of the increase in confidence, finding the type of clothing that I feel the best in, etc. If losing a bit of weight (healthily) would help you gain some of that confidence, then that could help, but your weight sounds perfectly healthy to me. That doesn’t mean that you can’t decide to do some simple workouts if that would boost your confidence, but please know that you’re not overweight. Being healthy in your own body is all that matters. I’m a healthy 156 lbs (~70 kg) girl myself! I’m not skinny by any means, but I’ve grown to love parts of my body being on the thicker side. I know it’s hard, but please take care of yourself properly. Losing weight is fine, but please don’t do it in a way that’s extreme or harmful to your body. I promise that your self image truly does get better with time. I wish nothing but the best for you <3

I am sure you are quite beautiful
Where i live 60/70kg girls are healthy and beautiful
50kg are skinny
And 40kg are sick and malnourished
I am sorry but you have to stop fixating about it Cause the more you are gonna stress about it the more you will be eating and stuck doing nothing
Just eat healthy food for your own benefit and if you are well off hire a trainer or just follow some vidéos just to shape your body and have more stamina and don't focus on your weight on the process
And good Luck

Ok I don't know kilograms like that cause I'm American, but you are skinny. 140 pounds is considered the average weight in America. Meaning you being 60 kg you are below the standard already! Please love yourself as you are! But if you do wanna change just workout a bit and eat LOTS of protein, trust me ;)

Hun, that feeling is completely normal. That sense of having no direction or passion. But it's not where you want to be forever and it's not where you will be forever either. You just need to weigh out your options. Grades aren't half bad and that's good. It means, if you set your mind to it it can be great. You can turn a hobby into a passion. If you like working with people, seeing results, working with money like finance or accounting, like promoting stuff with marketing, you can even take up languages, or even something to do with environmental sustenance for a random pick. The list is endless. You can even reach out to the uni and find out what each major entails and what the prospects for the future are. I know you prob have unanswered questions and you just need some answers to guide you. But take a deep breath and go one step at a time. Once you have more information, I'm hoping it'll be easier for you to narrow it down. I wish you all the best. (づ￣ ³￣)づ. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Im so with you on that, I dont feel connected with anything, I honestly took another year because I was so indecisive on what to do, the program im planning to choose I honestly don't know if I like it or not I just felt forced to choose it since its the closest one I think ill like, I dont have the answer but I hope it makes you feel better to know ur not alone

Thank u i feel like people don’t talk t this enough so it gets overwhelming and lonely I hope u will like what u chose

hey !! don’t worry about not being able to choose a major in time, i know it’s really stressful because it seems like such a big decision that you’ll have to live with for the rest of your life. i was like that last year, overwhelmed and scared for the future, but seriously, a matter like your major is something that can be easily adjusted. at first, you can settle for a major you wouldn’t mind doing, or just choose to be undecided. you have so many months, and even years to change it according to what you feel suits you best. i did the same, i chose to major in data science at first, but found that i wasn’t particularly interested in stem, so i changed my major to criminology instead. there’s always an option to change majors before you begin school, or even after you begin!! so take your time and don’t stress too much about it, you have lots of time to think deeper and figure out what path you really want to take ヾ(☆▽☆)

This point in life is really delicate, it can make or break your future, but honestly, as long as u overcome one hurdle at a time its doesnt look so bad. And its normal to feel stressed, its your future, of crs. But also know that u dont have to force yourself to race with everyone else, do it at your own pace. Also tbh passion is very fleeting. I entered my program (architecture) as my own choice as a naive freshman but now i srsly just want to pass and regret my decision tbh. But i will pass, at this point idk if i even want to practice. And its okay. I have no idea what my future holds i try not to think as much cos its overwhelming, but i try to tackle one problem at a time. Which rn is to graduate. Whatever my future holds idc, its not my passion anymore but smth i will do cos i have a lot of stuff i want to buy or do, and that my motivation rn. Lmao. I digress, but girl just chose one logically, motivation and passion can be acquired elsewhere (like bl or manhwa or stuff) good luck!

Glad to help! The people in your comment section also help me think about what im about to do, thx for being brave enough to reach out and ask.

Couple breaker was fun ^^

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/glass_wall/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/concubine_scandal/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/match_made_in_hell/ (webtoon, underrated)
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/live_or_not/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/chasing_the_sun/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/so_i_married_an_anti_fan/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/love_war_s_victory/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ghost_wife/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/love_your_enemies/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/fiery_enemies/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/age_matters/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_problem_of_my_love_affair/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_butler_not_lover/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_bittersweet_couple/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_girl_and_the_geek/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/we_are_not_familiar/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/honey_blood_lee_narae/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/you_are_my_lovely_dragon_king/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/no_doubt_in_us/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/scorching_romance/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/his_devilish_new_hire/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/we_re_soulmates_starting_from_today/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/as_you_wish_prince/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/reminiscence_adonis/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/dictatorship/

Happy reading!

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/as_you_wish_prince/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/emperor_and_the_female_knight/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/i_found_a_husband_when_i_picked_up_the_male_lead/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/is_it_a_fortune_or_is_it_a_woe/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_guide_to_proper_dating/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/unlucky_mansion/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/goodbye_in_law/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/cheese_in_the_trap/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/live_or_not/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/so_i_married_an_anti_fan/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/miss_time/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/scorching_romance/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/first_frost/

Have you read any of these? (≧∀≦)

bj alex

Bj Alex be fr ??????

On god bru

The trem is bara i cant find any ╥﹏╥

Myreadingmanga has so many for my taste ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

Its bara

The only Bara story I know is this one:
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/priapus/

Thank u

I don't know what kind of perspective you are looking for, but reading these manga makes me reflect deeply on many things, and it puts me in a pensive mood.

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_horizon/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/on_the_way_to_meet_mom/

Hii! I'm so sorry, I meant to respond to the person above asking for recommendations, but I messed up and replied here instead

Kinda:
A Trace of the Wonder

Star Catcher (webtoon) it's a bl

It's SA the adult shouldn't have done that and I'm sorry it happened to you. A child cannot consent to any of that.

That is considered Statutory Rape. Minors can not properly consent to having sex with adults, and as such any sexual act between a child and a grown adult is considered rape.

The American Sexual Assault hotline is 800-656-4673.
The hotline for the UK is 0808 500 2222.
The Ontario/Toronto hotline is 416-597-1171.
If you're in a different country please send me a seperate message and I will provide you with resources. Nobody should have to go through this alone.

I have it all here:
Asia
Philippines – 0919 777 7377 (PNP WCPC) / 163 (Bantay Bata)
India – 1091 / 181 / 7827 170 170
South Korea – 02 2263 6465 (Korea Sexual Violence Resource Centre)
Japan – 0570 070 810 (Tokyo Rape Crisis Center)
China – 12338 (Women’s Rights Protection Hotline)
Taiwan – 113 (Women & Children Protection) / 02 2555 8595
Thailand – 1134 (Pavena Foundation) / 02 929 2222
Vietnam – 024 3333 5599 (Gender Violence Helpline)
Indonesia – 021 390 3963 (Komnas Perempuan)
Malaysia – 15999 (Talian Kasih Helpline)
Bangladesh – 109 (National Helpline Center for Violence Against Women and Children)
Pakistan – 1099 (Human Rights Ministry Helpline)
Nepal – 1145 (Women’s Helpline)
Sri Lanka – 1938 (National Women’s Helpline)

Europe
United Kingdom – 0808 2000 247 (Domestic Abuse) / 0808 802 9999 (Rape Crisis)
France – 0800 05 95 95 (Viols Femmes Information)
Germany – 08000 116 016 (Violence Against Women Helpline)
Italy – 1522 (Antiviolenza Donne)
Spain – 016 (Gender Violence Helpline)
Belgium – 0800 98 100 (SOS VIOL)
Netherlands – 0800 0188 (Center for Sexual Violence)
Norway – 800 57 000 (Sexual Abuse Helpline)
Sweden – 020 50 50 50 (Kvinnofridslinjen)
Denmark – 1813 (Rape Centre Emergency Line, Copenhagen)
Finland – 0800 97 899 (Rape Crisis Centre Tukinainen)
Poland – 800 12 00 02 (National Women’s Helpline)
Greece – 15900 (General Secretariat for Gender Equality)
Ireland – 1800 77 88 88 (Dublin Rape Crisis Centre)
Portugal – 800 202 148 (Violence Against Women Helpline)

Thank you! I was having problems finding the resources myself.

Thanks so much for the help and answer but it’s something that happened long time ago I remembered and don’t knwo how to feel about it I was confused and don’t know if taht was oaky what happened

Even if it was a long time, it's not a bad idea to call a hotline and just talk about what happened. Theres people there who were trained on how to help you in your situation and can maybe help you organize your feelings and such. Please stay safe

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/nana_to_kaoru/

I feel like this is male gaze???? ML is ugly as shit. FL is milked for her looks and tits

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/s_m_pure_love/

Real.

tbh If its fun it doesn't pay well and if it does it takes the fun out of it

You cant have your cake and eat it too. You gotta choose. Suffer in broke but fun. Or suffer in depression but rich.

I majored in biology and it was fun but now I'm broke. Not the best. Wished I just went into a trade school instead

I have double major in design and IT, the job i get is pretty easy (run the ads on some platforms) and i could work from anywhere evey time. And the paid is satisfying too. But to get to my level, you have to suffer and lost many sleep in the journey. But after all that, it's worth it

Sound interesting do u have to be creative or not ?

In my design major yes, but you can learn by practicing and see for reference. But in IT is rarely. My job too, it will be troubling if we get creative