
dan is being so ridiculous about this whole thing and it’s pissing me off. i was wondering where the idea of a baby came from, but from seeing your friends niece is crazy a baby is a HUGE commitment, its not some random decision you make on a weekday, especially not when you’ve maintained the notion of not having kids and your partner doesn’t want kids either. a child is something both parents need to be 1010% on board with.
AND DAN YOU FOOL, FINISH UNIVERSITY HELLO?? its been a couple months since i read the main story, but isn’t jeongheon the one paying for dan’s education? sorry to say this, and don’t be fooled, i DO love dan, but this man has nothing remarkable or notable to his name besides the fact that he’s married to jeongheon. as far as i can remember, he doesn’t have a job either - the modelling is just a fun, little side gig - this man has no degree, no job, his husband paying for his studies which he hasn’t even finished, and he wants a kid? which he’ll support on his own, how exactly?? again, he’ll be relying on jeongheon. i know they’re married and love each other YES, but i’m just trying to point out how dan doesn’t have any ground to stand on to raise a child. THIS BRAH IS PISSING ME OFF OHMYGOD SOMEONE SMACK SOME SENSE INTO HIM WITH A BROOM IDK

they’re so funny ml is so obsessive, it’s borderline red-flag psycho, but mc is like “omg, my precious angel baby who can never do any wrong, hes so sweet and thoughtful i love him so much i wish i could do more for him” LMFAOOO RIDICULOUS THE BOTH OF THEM I LOVE THEM
also, the sister??? what is it her fucking business if her brother takes it up the ass tf. idc if she heard the convo, pretend? you? didnt??? don’t go around phoning someone’s cousin to confirm - that’s such an invasion of privacy
and urgh, i hate when family is homophobic in manhwas. yes yes, i know in real life, plenty of people are not accepting and korea is still pretty conservative but this is FICTION - LET THE PEOPLE CELEBRATE THE HOMOS, MAN COME ON AND GIVE ME A LA DEE DA HAPPY LAND WHERE THE WORLD IS A BETTER PLACE

so i know everyone is upset that the assault wasn’t addressed properly here (i am too) but let’s not forget being hyper sexual after SA is a perfectly okay coping mechanism for some victims. with all of his anxieties building up, to being assaulted and then finally having yiyeon ease his worries and insecurities, it was like a fuse that had ran its course and was going to explode.
we can look at it that way, or it could just be another case of bl authors and their fetish for SA - but it wasn’t between main characters, so i doubt it in this instance - and as far as i remember, i don’t think yiyeon’s ever forced himself onto jin kang so based off of the main story, i don’t think (or at least i’d hope so) that the author was trying to be weird
i must say, the SA is something very real, though. if i’m gonna look at it from a ‘this is real life’ perspective, don’t asian people, especially korean people - mostly woman, get sexually assaulted in western countries because of their distinct asian/korean appearance because it’s a fetish - i know its not exactly unrelated but i just wanted to point it out
also, i don’t like that this assault was thrown in as a plot device for jin kang to reveal his insecurities to yiyeon. they could’ve just argued over dinner and then gone back to the hotel and talked it out

the first thing that came to my mind when i saw jin kang immediately get sexual with yiyeon after the SA was it looked like a response or a sort of coping mechanism to the incident :((
still doesn't excuse it being used as the authors way of having jin kang open up about his insecurities bcus literally anything else could've sufficed why such an extreme (?) route
youve summed my thoughts up perfectly like im glad someone else saw it in this light

i’ll still never understand why everyone loves yeonwoo as much as they do AND AH AH AH, let me speak before you downvote me and rush to defend him.
1. sexually assaulting hwibum in his sleep - you don’t just go around jacking yourself off on a sleeping person’s face WHAT THE FUCK. they weren’t even in a relationship at the time as well (not that that would’ve made it better unless they discussed it prior) but that made it EVEN worse
2. threatening to off himself - throughout the story, yeonwoo was incredibly manipulative, but the peak of it was truly when he flung himself off the construction site bc hwibum didnt wanna date him HELLO WHO DOES THAT????
3. coercive sex - it was a pattern at the start for yeonwoo to forcibly convince hwibum to have sex with him. sex should be a two way street, that is 110% consensual and enjoyable for all parties involved.
4. non consensual sex - again, yeonwoo forced hwibum. but the specific sex scene i’m talking about is when hwibum lied about meeting soohyuk so yeonwoo used hwibum as his personal sex doll, having incredibly rough sex that hwibum did not expect, and did not stop when hwibum continuously told him no and to stop multiple times. before anyone says that hwibum said he didn’t hate it the next day, be so fr. that man is weak for yeonwoo’s pretty face and puppy dog eyes, he’d drop his morals for him
i do feel bad for yeonwoo’s trauma, but that’s no excuse to manipulate someone into a relationship and then force yourself onto them. look at all of the consensual sex scenes, like the one at the end at the hotel - it was so nice and sexy. 100% consensual AND sexy, ik a lot of you guys are used to reading rapist trash like low tide in twilight and roses and champagne and thinking it’s a masterpiece, but i promise you, consensual sex is MUCH better than rape and sexual assault.
not to mention soohyuk. yeah, he was pissing me off by trying to get in between them even though he knew they were together, but the poor guy was just a stupid fool with a crush. honestly, if hwibum wasn’t such a fool himself, soohyuk would’ve been a great partner to him
idk anyways, glad they got their happy ending. let’s see how the side stories go - hopefully more with their families and some closure for soohyuk - I NEED HIM TO HAVE HIS OWN STORY BUT A WORKPLACE ROMANCE
he definitely didn’t kill winter. but i feel like winter forced raymon to pull the trigger and he probably shot his shoulder or something, nothing life threatening