
It’s not like I want them to get back together but I get what Iseon is talking about like as a society we have this warped image that love is all about butterflies and fluttering (which is considered infatuation/crushing) or whatever but actual love should actually be more of a warm and comforting feeling if you’re considering them for the long run
HOWEVER yeah this wasn’t communicated and sometimes being late is just that; too late and now FL has already moved on… it’s just kinda bittersweet and it’s hard not to feel something for his character given he’s not inherently a bad guy unlike ML’s ex who was just a terrible person

Iseon is still a flawed guy because of the way he went about things. Nothing wrong with viewing love as more comforting than fluttery. It’s just that, he lacks consideration for Yumin. He wants her to understand where he’s coming from, his idea of love, but didn’t even apologize or realize how his behavior could’ve hurt her. Hence, he asked “did I ever hurt you?” Like hello? You even said how she might’ve noticed that he dated her out of pity. Let’s not forget that. ML’s ex is outwardly selfish, and FL’s ex is inwardly.

I’m on team overrated cuz it’s not even that good. Idk the ending felt lackluster, the plot was kinda hard to follow, I felt like throwing up whenever the seme kept sleeping with the girls, and I wish they had a proper conversation about that, about everything tbh
Also it seems like the seme would have a hidden child later on along the way lol

dude i can’t stop thinking about how Wooyeon is honestly not a good sex partner??? Like what does he have besides a good face and a big dick?? He doesn’t please the uke at all during sex! He puts his pleasure above the uke!! And sure the uke might tell him “do whatever you want, i like you” but that doesn’t mean you should ACTUALLY just do whatever if you have any ounce of care for your partner feeling good too
Wooyeon does the bare minimum then calls it a day. The foreplay is terrible (nonexistent) he just shoves it in, the novel depicts it clearly. It’s such a turnoff whenever i read their sex scenes bc yk in reality the sex must suck!! And yes this is fiction but that doesn’t disregard the truth that Wooyeon just has no bed skills! Or at least i haven’t seen or read any moment where he was good in bed

This has taken such a bad route it’s actually pathetic. I’m curious how the author is trying to play this out. The only way I’ll like this again or “redeem” this situation is if the seme turns out super overprotective by the end of it and regretful once he finds out he’s been the reason uke is having bad side effects and possible health issues (maybe if something extreme happens to the uke as a wake up call) and paranoid about the ukes health (a whole 360)
Example of what I mean by overprotective is that seme from Spilled Blood

What I don’t get is why they always make the ML toxic, do they think we actually like that type of ML? Like alright a bit of toxicity is okay, but this is too far for redemption, let’s see how author will redeem the ML.
If ML actually resents himself and changes his ways, gives MC space and reflects, then maybe, that’s good enough for fiction I guess but not in real life, I’d end it the relation if I were Wooju.
The FL does not need a playboy who can’t be trusted after her previous when she got cheated on I hope the ML actually treats her right, even for a fake relationship.