
I don't know if this is like a niche trope but I absolutely love when characters get attached to other characters and are just like "yeah we're married now" without ever really discussing their relationship and just having a pseudo-proposal like it's so funny and adorable to me, you skipped a few steps but what the hell sure tie that man down with you hes all yours

I just read the novel (not the entire thing, just up until the latest updated chapter) and if the manhwa is a hard read for y'all then it's best for y'all stop here, it gets so much worse it's actually nauseating to read The worst part is that the novel is so emotional, written so beautifully and thoughtfully that you can't stop reading, it explains how badly Seonwoo gets depressed that he becomes a shell of his former self, and you'll feel his pain like it's your own, start feeling helpless matching of how badly he feels helpless Genuinely though this story is one of the most cared about and considerate writing I've read in a while, it's going to be a painful, painful read for these next chapters but it isn't angst just meant for shock-value or flimsy romance, and it's honestly just like relieving to see how the author writes with consequence, every moment has meaning and impact, and that makes this such a good read, of course, as long as you can handle the heavy topics coming up soon (bullying, sexual assault, depression, etc.)
That's just my two cents at least, I love stories where you can tell the author isn't just writing words but writing a story with emotions intertwined with every word, also sorry if I don't make sense I'm still reeling from how intense reading the novel was for my heart

Found it in these comments :)
https://novelib.com/story/possibility-of-change/

!!WARNING!! Rant ahead about how ass this story was! Some people absolutely cannot stand yaoi's being criticized the slightest and if that is you, do not read further ahead and don't reply with something stupid because idgaf! This is your warning
First of all, this story was horrible and I feel so bad for the uke, he was treated horribly by every adult he cared for and it's so hard to read, like 1) The seme, don't even get me started with this rapist [yes, pressuring someone to have sex with you and promising you'll stop after they do something with you is rape, and it's also rape when you break that promise] I honestly thought he was so cute on those first few chapters until he just started sexually assaulting the uke and being emotionally manipulative by saying "so I'm just a fuck and chuck?" when HE'S the one who forced the other, and trying to make it like the uke fell for him and was "becoming his true self" for his rapist? Diabolically hard read and honestly I'm dropping it because it's so painful to see that uke ends up with this pos in the end 2) Honestly I don't have much to say about the childhood friend since he actually knows consent and backs off when told no but him being so gleeful everytime uke's relationships failed and being upset for every new one he gets in because he has a crush that he refuses to tell him about? Dude nobody feels bad for you, deal with the consequences for your own actions dumbass 3) The ex-wife is a bitch for playing with the uke's feelings the way that she did, but honestly that's not the most upsetting part 'cause clearly that's just the author's way of setting aside the wife and writing the most surface-level woman that could stay out of the uke's life as much as possible, she's unfortunately just a plot device to get the uke a biological child, the worst part is her pushing together the uke and his rapist [given, she doesn't know that he raped him] like that fixes how much of an asshole she is, not to mention just the bullshit that the author is pulling to make the uke happy with his rapist when for multiple chapters he's shown uncomfortable with the idea of being with him romantically and is always being guilt tripped and forced into it, "you look happier than when you were with me" just pissed me off so bad, so all-in-all this was just a sad sad story of how the uke hasn't had a grown adult in his life actually show him real care and compassion and it's so sad to read this and are expected to believe somehow he got his "happy ending"
Second of all, y'all annoying asl calling this a hidden IvanTill dj, I get seeing vivimeng's art style in this but saying that you're only reading the story because you're pretending it's another person's work is so immature

LITERALLY READ MY MIND I finished chapter 24 and I was like “hopefully i’m not the only lwky hating on this for GOOD reason.” I would Like to add, don’t get me wrong to each their own artstyle. I mean I really enjoyed this artstyle but the uke does NOT look like he’s in his thirties!! The Not only was the seme manipulative and selfish, the uke has a whole child and still has no backbone? Then you’re trying to date him and it’s not that easy because she has a whole child. Seems like the Seme doesn’t rlly care for that kid unless he kinda has to, treats her like a “oh yeah her too.” Idk I didn’t like it

"reading the story because you're pretending it's another person's work is so immature" Didn't even think about alnst reading this because I genuinely don't believe they look similar, but you're just talking for the sake of talking because how is that immature? If you know what that word means anyway

For real!! I'm tired of older x younger yaois if the older is just going to look exactly like the younger guy, and uke not being able to cut off contact with this guy was so annoying like you are a FATHER, this guy forced himself on you while your six year old kid was home, how are you still talking to him??

Do you even hear yourself or do you just love the sound of your own voice? Yes, it absolutely is immature to read a webtoon because you're pretending it's someone else's characters entirely, because how are you unable to separate unrelated arts and stories from one another? AND it's disrespectful to artists as a whole, no one wants to put time and effort into their own art just for it to be dismissed as their idea and called some other artist's hidden dj. There is a clear lack of maturity in both reasons I gave, hence, immature.
Don't get upset with me just because you weren't able to connect the dots in your own head and needed me to explain it to you.

Still didn't explain how that's immature. Try a different word. Still, nobody is pretending these two are entirely different characters so let's not be delusional, people compare them and that happens in fandoms. Maybe it's your first time in one. Hopefully nobody pissed in your cereal this morning because you're fuming. Have a nice day and try to breathe a bit. People will always see similarities of their favorite characters in other works. If anybody's upset, it's you.

"you look happier than when you were with me"
The uke right now: feverish, anxious, aching through pain, trapped in a toxic relationship, freackin' straight like a bamboo and ever asked to be wet noodle, does not like younger but force too see himself as a detracted...
Yes, that uke, who is a forced relationship with someone he is not attracted to sexually and romantically is happier. Either way she never looked at the Uke's face before or she just want to find any excuses for him to move on and to somehow be part of the community.

THANK GOD I WASN'T CRAZY!! Like, the author did such a good job in making likeable characters like the dad, the daughter, the older bro, college friends and even the best friend a bit (bc he was a really good person outside of his hidden crush, like, he was only happy in the breakups, never did anything bad), but made the ex wife a bitch and the mc a absolutely maniac! If it wasn't that this story would be at least 4 stars
Yall are so boring and lame I'm having the time of my life with this it's so funny and cute
RIGHT?! can't believe how much people are complaining in this comments section, like, just read it with a light heart and have fun guys ffs
For real!! Everyone's complaining that it's too drawn out but that's the point, live to laugh a little!!! They all just wanna see them fuck when this manhwa isn't one centered around sex, there's a billion just about fucking and yet they come here to complain ( `д´)