I know it's tough when it's a love triangle and we've all got our very valid preferences (don't let ppl shame you for what you like in fiction, whether you long for the wholesome or captivated by the big juicy mess), but please remember to enjoy a well written, entertaining story despite whose team you're on!
On that note, DAMN. Jo is nothing if not attentive and full of lust for Ian, I almost growled at the look in his eyes.. Thanks for feeding our boy cause he'd been starved!
(TJ my man, I miss you still)
Couldn't get into it and I really tried... Almost everything about the plot and the characters was just off. But the art was pretty!
Oh my life!! This story and the art are addictive, absolutely endearing and captivating! I couldn't hold back and just read the rest of the chapters currently out in Japanese (up to ch. 9 on cmoa) and even with my broken translation it gets even better! I wish the author will keep this going for some time
I was waiting until this story was wrapped up before picking it up and I just binged it in 2 days.. I LOVE THEM SO MUCH!!! It was such a great, feel-good read, fluff, lil bit of angst, super sweet and fun! Just gotta save up to buy it on lezn too now
Idk if it's funny or sad that ppl will judge every single fictional work (written or illustrated) by the standard of "would this be appropriate conduct in real life", to categorize it as a whole as problematic, which includes the creator and the ppl enjoying it as if that means they inherently condone the stuff that take place in it.
Not every work's purpose is to showcase perfect examples of how to behave irl and educate ppl, ESPECIALLY with small details (like sex prep in a lot of smut stories). Some are just entertainment, exploration of topics (light or heavy) in a non-realistic manner, fiction-exclusive fantasies etc.. And not everything caters to what we personally like, in which case, just move along.
Also, if you're not able to differentiate between reality and what takes place in a work of fiction and go to copy stuff irl > that's a you problem, not a media problem. So do work on that..
but you do understand that people are still allowed to criticize it right? That's what people are doing, it's also harmful because it can romanticize this kind of behavior. most people are fully aware something is fictional, like I personally don't hate this one bc it isn't as bad as others but I'm still fully aware of it
Btw I genuinely like this one bc like I said it isn't as bad as others so don't take the shit I said out of context okay I like this one but it isn't exempt from being criticized bc the ml literally fucking sucks. I'm not gonna argue against the bad things about it bc theyre true
I think it’s totally reasonable to do this even as someone who doesn’t. An important part of media literacy is recognizing themes in popular fiction and seeing how they may manifest in reality. While you and I may recognize that a pushy partner or one that threatens to harm themselve is abusive, many people do not and some media normalizes it. And that affects younger people that are extremely vulnerable to being manipulated in a relationship and do not have the whole “who am I” thing worked out. There is another point where these stories are about gay men for primarily straight women so there may be a disconnect in real-world consequences of this stories.
It’s important to remember that people are allowed to feel uncomfortable with some media. And they are allowed to talk about that discomfort. If you don’t like it, that’s fine, but maybe a discussion board is not for you.
I agree with you, I didn't even say anything to the contrary.
This was very specifically aimed at people who, as I said in my post, will condemn others for writing or reading and enjoying /appreciating a story that doesn't sit right with them personally. Especially when the sole reasoning behind it is that "the acts or ideas portrayed in this work clash with my moral compass or would be harmful irl". That's fine to think and discuss as much or as little as a reader wants to, but it doesn't give them any valid basis upon which they'll accuse others of being abusive, morally corrupt or romanticizing harmful behaviours.
That's not what I said. However, I DO find that the people most aggressively critical of these sorts of media, use the term "romanticizing" rather loosely and miss recognizing what the actual intent of a creator is when using themes that are lacking in realistic detail, are morally questionable or even outright abusive.
Just because we feel uncomfortable reading specific content, it doesn't mean said content and its creator & following should be persecuted and assumed to be perpetrators of what characters in a story do.
Alot more analysis and evidence is required to stand behind such claims (which is important to correctly assess so we can protect each other and those most vulnerable if they are truly harmful) and in most cases, they have been indeed exaggerated and false. Yet, it's a very common reaction in particular these days. Instead of thinking "oh this is making me uncomfortable, let's think or discuss why that is, how is the author approaching it, what's the aim of this story, how do I want to process it and also whether I want to continue consuming this content. " many immediately resort to " the author is problematic, if you like the story so are you".
I really enjoyed the story, despite it being quite repetitive with Jaeha's trust issues! But that finale felt so abrupt..
Why's this story so unhinged (affectionate) but the humour is actually so real?! Both dialogue and art are comedy gold at times, I love it!
Like that "What's this supposed to be? Moisturiser?" scene, never getting over it
Am I the only one who enjoyed the first side story?! Sure I'd prefer spicy fluff of the main cp or of Minhyuk finding someone else... But the 3 of them were a messy and hot af fantasy. Thanks for catering to the minority of readers lol
Not alone at all!
I'm really glad!! The comments on this site for the sides are terrifying to read.. The story wasn't even anything wholesome, so why are they acting like purity police T_T
Here we go again.. What makes you all commenting think the author would approve of this kind of character irl?
She wrote a problematic mf knowing perfectly well he's problematic, cause it's FICTION for entertainment for those who're into stuff like this
She's not writing a goddamn self-help book, nor a guide on how to choose your man irl.
Anyway, Wooyeon is at least a master in delusional sex talk if nothing else lol
Damn that was hot