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I had something similar for him too lmao

Ok but it depends on the emotions it's not like he was doing it to cheat it was medical and he even says that's how he felt and it's not in common for males to get erect during medical exams

He got horny and hit on the counselor, but "it was medical"... Great argument there bud, maybe make sure the story you're discussing doesn't directly contradict what you're saying in the future, huh?

Whatever nothing happened and there's no emotional attachment so I don't see it as cheating you could disagree and I could care less. Also that's just his personality being overly friendly and he's in an uncomfortable situation that's his way of joking it's not he like he actually slept with the man geez. also ur rude and I'm not ur bud thnx

Stfu, you just sound stupid. Yes, him rubbing his foot on the counselor's dick was "him being friendly". It's not a matter of "agreeing", you're just too stupid to see the obvious. It wasn't medical. K bye now

First of all how do I sound stupid if I say "that's not cheating to me" it's not like I'm in a relationship with you LOL. I don't understand what you're trying to say. Like the counsellor isn't medical??? He's not fucking the counsellor he's getting help to find his prostate. The fact he rubbed his foot on the counsellor's dick is weird but I'm just saying it's his defense mechanism (and that it's not cheating), he felt uncomfortable and that's how he dealt with it. It's not like he rubbed his face all over his crotch and was like let me taste lolol. Also the counsellor helped the other couples too.

That isn't how therapy is done, not even in that world, Takaomi comments on how that "counselling" isn't normal. Kazumasa had the option to go to a normal counselor when he found out the guy was going to finger his anal virginity away with Takaomi being aware. He let it happen and then tried to initiate sex with the counselor when he got turned on by the counselor fingering him. "not cheating". Your "opinion" is so outlandish that it's retarded to try and say "oh, well its my opinion".

Edit: Without* Takaomi being aware

Cheating- being sexually unfaithful. Fingering is a sexual act, therefore a form of cheating.

By your "it depends on the emotions" logic, someone that's partner has no strings attached sex with someone else shouldn't get mad because it was "just sex". See how dumb that sounds?

He could've left and not been in that uncomfortable situation but he didn't. Not only did he play footsy with the counselors crotch but he went and watched two strangers get it on. So yeah, I don't blame Takaomi for being upset. Would've been different had they talked it out.

I didn't say having sex with someone else in a no strings attached situation isn't cheating I said having him find his prostate isn't (the sex wouldn't be medical). He didn't leave cuz that's his personality to see things through. He was doing everything for takaomi, so he didn't want to leave he wanted to be able to have sex with takaomi. Also they both know he's flirty and prideful he was just trying to push away the embarrassment of getting erect after a man putting a finger in his ass. Also watching porn/two people getting it on in front of you isn't cheating.

It's not therapy and it's clear that he does it for a living and even helped other alpha couples. Just because takaomi never heard of it before in his world doesn't mean it's not normal. Virginity is a social construct and kazumasa did it so he could fuck his husband. He would put away his pride and get fingered cuz he just wanted to be with takaomi. He didn't initiate sex with the counsellor he just wanted to deflect his embarrassment like "oh I'm normal getting erect cuz you're erect too hahaha... right?" And who are u to tell me that my opinion is invalid. And you know what I find funny, the fact you always feel the need to call me stupid or some other derogatory terms instead actually proving a point lol. If you're gonna try to argue with someone learn from @LuLu at least they were logical lolol

I know his intention wasn't to hurt Takaomi, he's an oaf so I can see why he didn't think he did anything wrong lol. So I guess I can sympathize with both sides.

It's cheating By DEFINITION. LITERALLY. What are you trying to argue atp? What If your partner does this to you one day? Realize that another person took their virginity before you could and you have to deal with it. It's one thing if the topic of virginity is never brought up in your relationship and you live in ignorant bliss, but that isn't the scenario we're taLking about, Takaomi knows 1st hand that another man took his wife's virginity. That the two of them got together and did this while he was just going about his day unaware and that Kazumasa enjoyed it. He had to sit in the room with the guy before realizing what happened when Kazumasa told him like it was no big deal. You also completely missed their point about the "no strings attached" argument, they didn't say you SAID that, they said that the logic you're using can be applied to that scenario and many other iffy ones.

Pointing out "it's a social construct" is such a moot point. Most things are social constructs, you act like social constructs don't have significance just by being social constructs. It's common sense that virginity is sacred, i'm not religious btw, it's just common sense. They were already in a relationship and MARRIED before he gave away his special 1st time to someone else. Honestly, you're coming across as the dirty side of being slutty, you're okay with anything and it's gross. I have no problem with sluts, but do it right, being a slut doesn't mean you have to let go of basic morals. I mean, if virginity is so "whatever" to you that you're sitting here arguing against the definition of cheating, then where do you draw your line? I can only imagine you take the same flippant attitude to other sexual practices and try to apply that same useless "it's a social construct" argument to those situations as well.

Yes. I 100% agree with all that you've said.

Thank you, this guy is just really thick. (￣∇￣")

I understand why y'all would agree with takaomi but I'm just saying it's an over reaction. As much as I'd love to keep this going I don't think we'll ever agree with each other about this so we can agree to disagree. But also if anyone else agrees w me hmu lol and we can totally be friends.

Okay, bye O/