
It's not funny that people are disappointed. You can have a red flag character who isn't a rapist. There are plenty of ways to be an awful person without sexual violence. Falling back on it is cheap, lazy writing.

literally. I've read a story having a literal diagnosed psychopath ml who never rapes the the mc. my fav bl has a murderer as the ml (tbf he has his reasons) and he never rapes the mc either. u can write red flags, black flags even, and toxic characters and stories without including rape. it's insane how people are so used to it now, and find it funny when others actually still have it in them to find it disgusting.

This is a fantasy, people find this appealing because it’s detached from reality. The characterization makes sense. The turnout of events given the genre makes sense. This is not lazy or cheap writing, at all.
You’re just sad angry the author didn’t follow your preferred mode of storytelling or characterization.
Also, I just don’t like being notified with ignorant self-absorbed opinions on media I enjoy. Hope this helps!

The thing I noticed tho is that based on their most recent tweet it seems like the author is very much purposely writing this chapter to depict something that's non-consensual (they said that they'd been worrying about this chapter since before the comic even started but ultimately chose to write it in this way). I don't know how this'll affect the story in the long run, but. Ah well if it makes you uncomfortable, then it makes you uncomfortable, yknow? All I'm saying that it was probably intentional

In a lot of ways this manga is just fundamentally different from most, and I think it's noteworthy for that if nothing else. I really, really appreciate the emphasis on consent - especially consent WITHIN RELATIONSHIPS - and the fact that this manga actually acknowledges that penetrative sex isn't the only kind of sex there is - something almost completely absent in BL smut - I'm disappointed that they still end up there. I was really hoping it would end with them finding other ways to enjoy sex, especially since when it became the focus/goal is when the issues really started. So in that sense I think the first chapter is the best and most satisfying. We even got Hiro in a pro-choice shirt! Definitely haven't seen that in any other BL.
Honestly I don't think this couple was compatible, I kinda would've rather seen them break up and explored things with their respective side characters. But in a way that frustration is even more frustrating because it IS so realistic.
I love how one side character pointed out that the time you spend NOT having sex is always going to be greater and expecting sex to solve everything isn't realistic. Compatability is important, but all the rest is what makes up a relationship IMO.
If you enjoyed the sex ed aspect of this, I'd highly recommend The Good Teacher. It's one of the vanishingly few BL that I'd actually recommend taking sex tips from.
Ah, the sweet smell of communication. Love it. They’re so fucking sweet when they pull their heads out of their asses.
I also really appreciate that the author/artist didn’t give Jiwon the typical tiny bottom dick. He’s pretty jacked in his own right and doesn’t look delicate at all despite being smaller in stature. You don’t see that often.