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he got to be happy with junho. sorry you couldn't feel anything from that.

honestly I don't have any positive feelings toward someone who has raped someone <3

well, that's stupid

`that you would throw away an entire human being who is so young and has been so severely abused. In addition to losing both parents. This is fiction, but I hope you will learn to prioritze better in the future

he didn't kill anyone, so he doesn't deserve to be thrown away, killed. As long as you're acting like the heartless author. For this story's characters you'd have a victim whose heart would be broken, costing two lives of very young people.

no positive feelings? for someone who has achieved extremely high honors as a world class athlete. I'm not sure you know what you're saying. The rigorous training involved.

I wonder that you have any feelings at all from the way you sound

it doesn't matter what they've been through as children or whatever, but they affected another person's life, they're just giving other people truama that they could've avoided and yes I get its fiction but you have to admit he did extremely shitty things.

it does matter what they've been through. Yes, affected a person's life, but that person will live on, they will deal with some trauma, but they will get past it and live a happy life free of the effects of the rape.

and I didn't he should get killed, I didn't get that far into the story because I couldn't handle even reading it

live on?? do you not understand how truama works???

oh my god this is genuinely the stupidest thing I've read

it's good that you recognized that, but if you're not mature enough to handle this adult material, you're not qualified to comment so harshly.

like I'm literally laughing at how stupid that was I cannot oh my godkdnkss

I apologize for sounding harsh

you are not saying that AFTER saying that people can get over truama that easily Jesus christ

the people who are too young to be reading yaoi are becomming more and more problematic and destructive to the industry.

you legitimately just said truama is easy to get over and be able to live a happy life after, you aren't being any better than them

especially rape?? have you ever looked into cases where kids have been just kidnapped and could never get over the truama even when they turned into adults [even elders] no matter how much help they got?

oh please. according to some who are so crazed about the rape, even the softest rape plot element, go insane over the effect on the victim, but the victim lives on. the trauma doesn't destroy their lives

LAMO WHAT YES IT DOES personally I have been sexually assaulted, that I've been afraid of most men, that happened a very long time ago, imagine how hard it would be for someone who was raped, do you have literally no empathy for the victim??

You've drastically changed your premise. we weren't talking about kidnapping and rape victims

apparently I have far more empathy than you.

also wtf is soft rape

I'm saying that there's vast amounts of hope for a positive future.

Did you get therapy for your trauma?

STOP I THINK THEY BLOCKDD ME HELP BAHAHAHAHAHBABD DS

no

i didn't block you

that would be extremely rude to block someone mid discussion

damn sorry my internet is being shit loslkdll

if I did such a wrong thing, you'd be justified in calling me stupid. lol

yes I did, but in so anti social that therapy didn't really work bc its hard for me to open up about that stuff

sorry to hear that

positive future? you mean like a future where rapists are forgiven if they had truama or something lol

its fine but ty for being kind about it

I think that therapy is the only way to put something like that behind you. I wouldn't think a person could do it alone. look at depression. if it's serious enough, the person can't get out on their own

fearing men is serious serious trouble

I agree, but again therapy doesn't work for everyone, I am an extremely empathetic person to the point that I actually feel bad for the truama that the rapist went through, but at the end of the day I remind myself that they did a horrible thing that seriously affected someone's life

very serious. very difficult to handle that. there needs to be more people generous enough to help with victims and the troubles they face

yeahh but good thing I'm a lesbian lmao, and if its family members I'm okay with being with them

I agree, but here you are reflecting the greatness of humanity in your empathy

yeah, i kinda figured family's ok.

ha i just realized you might not realize you're talking to a man. only fair i tell you. earlier, i just wasn't thinking

I apologize

I think we have to find a way to forgive , okay kang as comic book character. lol but to be stupidly imaginative, I think he'd be forgiven. no one would be looking to put him under the jail

yea lol all that trauma still didnt justify him doing the same to others

don't bother talking to him. If you look at his old comments, you'll realize how crazy he is and doesn't know what he's talking about. i think he's a hardcore troll or fan of the author and a hardcore rape fan.

Also when you give him arguments, he takes out the victim's card (pretending that we are the bad guys and that we are horrible, whereas he says really serious things and he acts as if he hadn't nothing serious about the rape. (￣Д ￣)┍

On the pretext that those who are against the romanticization of rape are ", children" and do not "understand anything about life".

You don't tire for him, there have even been lawsuits against what he said but he is always there to answer all the comments under this manga. especially those who are negative. (⌒▽⌒)

law suits. lol. you've gone completely round the bend

justification. all you do is blame. what's your endgame? say something useful

what do you want done about it? what's the answer?

in this manhwa, the rape is not a soft rape element. obviously

a lawsuit against what someone says would be a direct violation of first amendment rights. you couldn't make a case

On my homepage you can look at where I stand on these issues. I've started stating my opinions on my message board

are u dumb or.....did u rape someone because all you're doing is just justifying rape
I mean u are bothering girls on this website so I won't be surprise

I've never justified rape. never. I want to look closely at some stories and talk about what's interesting in them. That rape is all you people think about is the questionable aspect. Furthermore, you are accusing a gay man of "bothering girls." I'm not interested in women that way. Being gay is something I resent having to bring up to defend myself. It's none of your business, and it never came up before haters like you started in on me with your untrue accusations

There were complaints about what you were saying about rape. I did not express myself I didn't mean "lawsuits"

I'm doing badly expressed myself*

I was talking about the complaints there were about mangago about the comments you had about rape and women.

mad weird smh

are you the same Eliza who was trying to make a case for rape in Lost Virgin?

Um...What??? Nop (⊙…⊙ )

this again. this is ridiculous

bro is mad weird

damn u ''real smart huh''

Oh my gosh reading your comments gave me headaches, having trauma doesn't give you a free pass for being an asshole, "oh he had rough childhood that's why he turned into a rapist" fuck you and fuck the author and anyone who fetishes rape

Maybe in fiction it does give you a free pass. In fact, it does in this story, undeniably. this is fiction. you're not the author. she gave him a free pass. why are you pissed at me? that's between you and the author, but I'm sure she'll win this one

Well i hope you get raped, and let's how you will excuse your rapist, because they had TrAuMa

You need to seek therapy asap cuz u have a rapist mentality, obviously nobody though you about consent, the fact this fandom is full of people like you, is what makes this fandom suck, also gosh dude being raped or sexually assaulted will cause traumatize someone for life, they might take their own life, u suck

before you say this about suicide, you need to give some statistics at least. No, I do not have this rapist mentality. that's stupid. I could accused you of the same. I don't like your gloom and doom message for rape victims. they can and do get past it, and they can have a great life. rape doesn't ruin every life of everyone who ever got raped. that's ridiculous.

and I don't appreciate you saying that me or anyone needs therapy. Who the hell are you to talk so condescendingly to me? If either of us could be suspected it's you. you're hostile in the extreme. you presume that rape victims are scarred for life, an ugly, unfair diagnosis.

your pfp also is self-demeaning.

"..I don't like your gloom and doom" bitch shut up lord, just because someone can overcome something like rape doesn't make it okay! you do have a rapist mentality, and you are full of shit, hope you don't go out and start raping everyone, also stop reading too much yaoi you a danger to society the fact it influenced you into thinking rape is okay, because the victims will get over it's fucked up! Learn about consent educate yourself,
Your logical is forget the rapist cuz they had trauma, traumatize the victim because it's just getting rape,
Stop reading too much rape yaoi
People like you and the people who write this kind of shit should be jailed.

Owh no my profile picture if Nikki Minaj is self demeaning well at least i don't have a rapist mentality, and i am looking down at and I'm not enjoying the view bye

I said that rape in our society was more a problem for women. Men rape women more than women rape men. I think that's true without having to look it up, don't you? briefly looking at an internet source I come up with one in ten rape victims are men. " I'm not citing sources. it's just the first stats that came up on google. wikipedia says the same.
Here's wikipedia on male to female and male to male rape: In 2019, 406,970 women were raped or sexually assaulted while the corresponding number for men was 52,336.

it gets vague and technical with male to male, and some of the wartime rape of men is pretty horrifyiing. still, those are the stats. I think it was one in ten male rapes are reported.

does that answer your question?

that was my comment. I don't see how that can turn into a complaint. men raping women is not good, but I did say that male to female rape was not something that affected me. I'm not seeing that as a complaint either.

I can get all kinds of offended over such a question if you like. It sounds like a whole new level of stupid as far as the guys on here being sore losers because they can't win an argument. there's no reason why anyone should have any reason to accuse me or imply anything.

why are you construing me having a positive attitude toward healing being me saying rape is okay. that is way too big a stretch to be legitimate.

LOL your crazy talk is kind of funny. lol why can't I say a victim can heal and with help get over it and go on to lead a good happy life?
I know all about consent. stop sliding around with the subject. I don't search out rape anymore than anything else. I like lots of yaoi.
jailed? no. that's covered under freedom of speech. In this case you are clearly on the wrong side of the issue. I find that offensive

okay, bad judgmental person

WHAT DOES YOU BEING GAY HAVE TO DO WITH THIS

that literally does not mean that the men who are raped are immediately not important just because it doesn't happen as often

ah yes because rape is so positive

you can't say that because it isn't the case for everyone, people are different, we all have our own mindsets

also goddamn shut the fuck up im getting a million fucking notifications from you I am tired , it would be better for all of us if you just ceased your talking

I was accused of "bothering girls" and there was another thing about women. I said it because I'm not any kind of threat to women. I read these stories because I'm an author and artist myself, and it's a way to keep up with the industry. I already have a partner.
I'm not looking to bother anyone in that way. that's it.

When I've read about men getting raped, it's so bad, so horrible, during torture, and all kinds of stuff in war and prison, in addition to normal life. Not important? I don't know how you got such a thing out of a few statistics

wow.

FINE. I have faith in people being more resilient than given credit for. AND all I hear EVER is how it scars it's victims for life, how they can never get over it. that's crap. More can deal with it, process it, mourn, get help, and get past it. I never said anyone would just forget it altogether. that would be stupid. People are strong.
It's got nothing to do with the rapist or the situation. I NEVER said it did. I never said that made it okay to rape anyone. do you not hear how dumbassed it would be for anyone to say such a thing? Getting over it means to cheat the rapist out of his criminal disgusting victory or dominance or whatever a rapist has in his repugnant rotted-out mind.

NO

so hostile. damn

I don't know if you understood that it was sarcasm or not?

oh, sorry. I see

ships already sailed

like every story got the antagonist or homewrecker. thats what the is.

yeah but its weird, he's sexually harassing the mc but people still like him??

Yo chill, we know but we hoe for the gorj face and big *probably* dicc (￣ε(#￣)Σ

Exactly his character design may be hot but he's still a creep???

uhm so does the white haired dude. for my opinion, the white hair dude kinda manipulating the uke. this is just my honest opinion please don't bash me. (´ . . . `)

how?

LMAO THIS MADE MY DAY

Everytime they say that it makes me not want to read it, which is why I'm skipping it bc it annoyed me that much

okay i like the second couple so far but YES i hate that shit so much like dude just fucking shut up