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Yea but no sex at all? Does that even work?
She said sex is tiring and bothersome, its like a task to her. Wouldn't you want to make YOURself and your partner feel good?

true... But if you get into a relationship and you're both sexually active and have had sex with each other before to suddenly stop is a bit strange.

Part of a healthy relationship is good sexual chemistry (of course this isn't the only important part, and I understand that platonic love is very real, but still), so I think most people would be concerned if their partner just decided to avoid sex for several months without explanation. If she doesn't want to have sex that's fine, but she shouldn't be ignoring her partner's desires without telling her why. Heesun is obviously frustrated with this and I think she deserves an explanation.

Though I do think Heesun basically forcing her gf into sex is kinda wack. She shouldn't be doing that no matter the circumstance and I can't help but feel that this whole conflict stems from a lack of communication on both sides

People who are Ace or just doesn't like sex exist. They still have the right to be loved

Communication is key. But it seems to me that she's not such a big fan from the start. Also throwing a tantrum is the best way to make it worst.

If my partner would do that to me, I would not try to"communicate". I'd just be really sad and angry.

Sex is not necessary in a couple. People who doesn't like sex or ace people exist, they deserve to be loved and shouldn't have to justify themselves if they're not comfortable to do so.

I completely understand that sex is not a necessity. I even said that platonic love is very real, implying a couple does not need to have sex to be happy. I just think that getting into a relationship with someone that thinks you are going to have sex with them and then denying them is a bit misleading. If she wasn't into that kind of relationship she should have said that from the get-go because at this point it's creating a toxic relationship for the both of them. Heesun is not in the right, but it's clear that this relationship is a two-sided coin and that neither one of them is producing a favorable outcome. They're both wrong.

Yes definitely. I was just seeing it from my perspective. As long as they are happy and loved thats enough .

I see your mind has been broken by this too.

I feel u buddy

IKR, FELT LIKE SLAPPING HER!!

same

sounds like a typical highschool girl who goes for the other girl instead of her cheating man

LMAAAOOOO TRUEEEEE

My thought exactly. Like , how can you not see that your enemy here is your damn husband.

Betrayal