
Someone said Iruma doesn't have harem

I just put this title as an example that not all of 'harem' is about sex. If I can't called this kind of relationship, or those who have deep bound like obsession or deep friendship affection as harem then tell me what term is appropriate.
U guys called me out as bad person just because I use 'harem' to describe this kind of relationship, I tried to explain and u guys still don't understand what I meant.
If 'harem' means only about sexs for u guys then thats fine, I won't force u to agree with my opinion either. Because for me when I said 'harem' its not always about sexs or romance. More like when multiple characters have deep feeling, bond, or obsessions, even when there is no romantic feelings or sexual moments.
I just found that 'platonic harem' terms when I ask chatgpt about harem without sexual context. I don't actually use it when I describe this kind of relationship, I just use 'harem' as it is.
I'm not trying to argue, I just explaining my thought. If u guys don't agree then thats fine.

All harems are romantic/sexual. You tried saying they weren’t after we said it was weird that you’re putting a 17 year old in the center of a harem with characters over the age of 18. You doubled down are your terrible points and even said in earlier comments that you ship all the characters together, which is romantic/sexual. You lied to our faces and no me you’re trying to play the victim in a completely unrelated comment sections and spin the story around to make you sound better which is hella weird. Please stop you’re just embarrassing yourself. You then listed a bunch of mangas/manhwas and said they had “platonic harems” which again don’t exists, but the stories you listed either had no harems or very explicitly romantically motivated harems which invalidated your point. We were correcting you because you said platonic harems exist but they don’t. ALL harems are romantic/sexual, that is part of the definition. You refuse to acknowledge your misunderstanding but looking at your past comments I don’t even think it’s a misunderstanding because you’ve explicitly said you ship these characters and I think you’re just playing dumb. Maybe don’t get your information from chatgpt because it makes you look like a huge retard. You’re not explaining your thoughts, you’re just doubling down on your own misinformation and try to say that our corrections are opinions when they’re just blatant facts. Have fun being willfully ignorant, just know you look extremely stupid to everyone else with a functioning brain. Bye!

I've been in the fandom for so song, and as long as I remember this is the first time someone said I can't use this term. So yes I am confused, english is not my first language so there's a limit how much I can say here. Thats also why I ask chatgpt.
U're very rude to me and its clear u don't want to understand my side at all. Bye

Youre not even comprehending what im saying and that term has never existed so idk why you're so stuck on it. You shouldn't be using chatgpt for anything as its super unreliable lmfao. Youre the one who doesn't understand, or maybe you do but you already know you're in the wrong so you're just digging yourself deeper. Have fun with your micro tho

New member in Isagi's harem

The concept of a harem is sexual? That’s literally the point of harem there’s no reason for a soccer player to have a harem that’s political or sexual so that’s the only other option. If you referred to bunny and isagis relationship as friendship that would be completely different but the word harem in itself means an inappropriate relationship between a minor and an adult. Not to mention two people that just met. I don’t care if you don’t like my opinion just like I don’t like yours, all I’m saying is that when you look at a minor interacting with a grown man you shouldn’t think “yeah now he’s in the harem now” normally I do scroll when I see stuff like this but there’s no point when it’s a series I actually enjoy. Nobody wants to see weird stuff in their fandom it’s pretty normal.

A non-sexual harem (also called a "platonic harem" or "emotional harem") refers to a setup where one central character is surrounded by multiple characters of the opposite (or same) gender, who may be romantically interested in them — but without explicit or implied sexual relationships. The focus is usually on:
Emotional bonds
Romantic tension
Unrequited or slow-burn love
Protective loyalty / admiration
Humor or drama around love triangles
Its u guys who only think about seggs harem

No where in your comment did you say it was platonic. Harems are NOT platonic, what you're referring to is called a friend group but judging by your account, you don't seem to have any experience in that field. Harems were originally a religious thing that is focused on sexual and political relations. Please don't comment stupid things if you don't even know what you're actually talking about.

And here I am explaining it to u what I meant. And ofc my acc doesnt have that since I can't find those genres here. Only on fanfic. U judge my comment based on that then its on u.
Easy example for u its like those reverse harem in shojo manga, all of those guys interested in mc. But not in sexual contect.
Pls educate urself before coming at stranger on the internet like u were a better person

If u want to check on those mangas/manhwas here some recommend:
Akatsuki no yona
Ouran highschool hostclub
Natsume Yuujinchou
Mairimashita Iruma kun
The genius actor who brings misfortune
Windbreaker
Debut or die
Charlotte has five disciples
S Class that I raised
Omniscient reader viewpoint
The trash of the count's family
And a bunch more

“Please educated yourself” you say as your entire argument is a nothing burger and just shows you don’t know what you’re talking about. Harems are inherently romantic/sexual there is no such thing as a platonic harem. Reverse harems are still romantic/sexual and if you can’t see that I can’t help you. Please take a literacy class for the love of god

when did people stop having fun damn? and i agree on how you meant it wasnt sexual, you didnt even say anything about that. its their fault if the first thing they thought was sexual. dude ship all you want, its like their new to fandoms, its always going to have people shipping regardless. People saying how they don't like it won't ever change anything especially on an illegal website that promotes a bunch of other illegal things very hypocritical lol.
i used to get my shit twisted but i realized its never that serious
also "Harem" in fiction (especially in anime, manga, and light novels) usually refers to a genre or trope where one central character (often male, but not always) is surrounded by multiple characters who show romantic or emotional interest in them.
this can involve sexual content, but it doesn’t have to. many harem stories are lighthearted, comedic, or purely romantic with no explicit content.

First of all. I’m completely okay with shipping. Do whatever you want in that regard it doesn’t matter if effect me. HOWEVER, shipping a minor and an adult is weird no matter how you twist it. Even in a romantic light it’s weird.
I also disagree with your concept of a harem, in fiction, especially manga, the “romance” is almost always sexual, unfortunately that’s just how it is.
Lastly, it’s completely okay, in my eyes, to insult this person, they are over 21 and enjoy/defend shota content, that is pedophile behavior. The best part of this app in my opinion, is the fact that any and everything can be posted and talked about. You can argue your opinion comfortably without moderation, but this doesn’t mean you leave all your morals behind when you open said website. It is completely fine for me, when I see weird ass behavior from some random pedophile who comes up with fuckass vocabulary that doesn’t exist, I can speak and shame that. If you wanna be on the side defending a GROWN woman who enjoys shotacon, you do you. But I know personally that I would never embarrass myself that much.

I don't think the original comment was that serious like no need to accuse someone of being a pedophile over a comment like that
It was probably in the sense that since Isagi had a big influence on many people, he'll maybe have one on this Bunny guy too, but I don't think they implied any sexual thing even if the word harem is used.

I'm not trying to defend someone or debate over what's the definition of harem just saying this conversation went far from this comment that wasn't probably that serious
I don't know this person so I can't accuse anyone of anything either
I'm not here to create new debates so let's end here and just enjoy the manga

I think accusing someone of something despite knowing nothing of this person is way more being ignorant and rude
You're just making big assumptions over someone's comment and is rude to me who was polite with you
And no, a comment on a manga website isn't an evidence for anything
But insulting someone is real tho
Anyway I won't reply anymore
I got goosebumps when they make out in the snake form... Still overall good tho 9/10