
People that think you need to forgive people that have wronged you to move on are ridiculous. You can move on and accept what happened to you without forgiving an abuser/perpetrator/etc. I will never forgive my father for what he did to me, but have I grown up and moved on? Yes. Do I think about him? Rarely, and usually only when people ask me about my family and I am forced to explain my family dynamics. Winter doesn't owe it to himself or his mother to forgive/ reconnect with her. Especially after how shameless she has been.

Yeah, also forgiveness doesnt mean condoning or any stupid shit like that. People should forgive for themselves not for the person that has done them wrong, its to free yourself from hatred of the other person. It hurts the most knowing the person you'ved harmed forgives you but still doesn't contact you, it shows they dont care at all about you and youre no longer anything to them. To be honest no perpetrators like winter's mother will be deserving of forgiveness, when the victim forgives its not because someone deserves it but because they want to. Thats all there is to it and they dont have to do it if they dont want to.

Okay. But my question is when would a knight need to wear a tiara?? Like. How is that a reasonable gift for a knight? How did he actually think that was going to work out?? Not like she can wear it on duty. And I don't think she'll be going to any balls anytime soon. And even if she did, wouldn't it be weird for her to wear a tiara? I feel like a tiara is only for princesses...idk man. What's with these freaking tiaras??

thats why the prince laughed at him for choice of present. the commander isnt a typical ml who knows his way to woo a lady or give gifts. his logic was that if not a sword, wouldnt she like a tiara? both really important symbols. i also dont think a tiara necessarily means "princess" but more like nobility so, in possible other situatioms women would wear a tiara or fancy headress to the ball which i think knights can attend as well, correct me if im wrong

I was also think of this but...there are two factors that goes againt that Idea. This is just my opinon. The 1st one is that she is not a noble, the 2nd one is wouldn't be offensive for a noble to wear a tiara at the presence of a royal? I think the only noble who are allowed to wear a tiara are the Duke or people who are a relative of a royal.

right? but i just read the raws and SEMISPOILER
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nobody seems to think of it too much. the girls think the commander is acting so nice to give her the tiara, califa mentions that she might have a price to pay in exchange for the tiara while violette said she would take it anyways. on the guys side i had a tough time translating giryu is hesitant about giving the tiara to the princess as the blonde dude tries to convince him to. giryu thinks about wanting to give it to judith cuz she would look great at the next ball in it. idk what that infers but yea
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