Dump his sorry, abusive ass and look for smne who treats you like you deserve. Don't even have to be the cute nice boi, just smne who don't treat you as awful.
it's a chinese thing when they curse (or get really frustrated) they refer to themselves as "laozi" an arrogant way of saying father (father because they're usually the top in the hierarchy??) It would've been funnier if they just left in laozi and not translate it XDXD
New guy passed the vibe check with flying colors