
reading this w my 23 y/o single ass is a REAL struggle

I hate situationship too but somehow I always find myself in one... sorry to hear that, getting ghosted is soo horrible and unfair idk why people can't just say what they are feeling instead of dissappearing w/o a word. something similar happened to me as well bro, like a year ago maybe and I still think about it because I actually really liked her. She had a toxic, manipulative ex gf and she hid it from me and didn't tell me until much later on. Then I got mad at her because I found out she was still talking to her behind my back while leading me on. So I stopped talking to her for a few days then I find out she got back with her and again she HID it from me thinking I didn't know and still flirted with me. So I finllay confronted her about it and I asked her if anything that we shared was genuine and if she actually was serious about us and she practically said she liked being with me because it made her feel loved and it also helped her forget about her ex...so I felt used sorta. Even though she said that she did actually like me so I asked her if she still likes her ex and all she said was that it was complicated ughh I felt like such a fool cus I still stuck around even after finding out about her crazy stalker ex cus I was so willing to fight for her...but yeah she went back to her and they are still together...I would think that if she liked me as much as I liked her, then she would have the courage to finally break off with her ex and be with me but no...also sorry this reply got kinda long but story time, yay.

dang bruh, u don’t deserve that u deserve so much better, i don’t have situationship but i got cheated by my ex gf for 5yrs, she was cheating with a man too but i forgive her that time and she cheated again and again and yet i still forgive her that time coz she said she will change and i believe her like a fool, i know that she’s so toxic to the point that my older sis is mad at her but what can i do i really do love her that i was willingly to be blind, i just want to stay for a little longer and hoped that she will change for me i was an idiot i got drained tired and sick of it all that i finally broke up with her and then she plead again and cry coz she knows i hate seeing her cry but i didn’t get back together to her i was really fed up, that’s why i left while she’s crying honestly though i was hurt at that time too coz i really think that maybe she really will change this time but no i was scared that if i forgive what she did again she will do it again, that’s i strengthened myself and walk away that night and i’m glad i did that, i’m happy and single i still think about it sometimes but i sure don’t want to go back i forgive what she did too but no matter what i will never go back to that kind of relationship again, well all i wanted to say there’s so many people in this world and i’m sure u will find someone who will treat u better and cherished u goodluck in life (=・ω・=)

Seriously i hate cheaters i grew up with my father who was like a very proud cheater always talking and let's say flexing it . I don't know what else to say except that this sucks really bad and it's not your fault . And you definitely deserve someone that will love you and cherish you without all that.

well thank you for that, and you too you deserve better too, my ex gf she’s so toxic if i think about it now like very toxic, and i’m glad i got out of that relationship i see her sometimes but that’s it i don’t hold grudge and she what she di was not a mistake but a choice and u forgive for that but i will never forget what she did, even though she cheated i still want to wish the best for her, you too you will find someone who will love you very much and not used you i wish you goodluck in life (=・ω・=)
i'm so jealous gonna set myself on fire