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Although the art is not my cup of tea, I think it's good. The artist has skills and a vision for what they are doing. If nothing else is unique and it's taking a risk. I approve.

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Do you have any strategies when you notice a story you are reading affects you negatively?

I came across a story. I liked the MC, but it's obviously just going to get worse and worse. It's not finished yet, and a part of me would like to just skim it all and just forget about it afterwards, but it will keep updating, and I will keep stumbling with it.

Do you have advice? Any strategy to disengage or set boundaries will be appreciated. Group therapy will be even better. Tell me who hurt you.

Thanks!!

*Actually, just writing this made me feel a bit better. So, thank you for reading.

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I have been reading BL lately, and something caught my attention.

In my country, Japanese/Chinese/Korean people are very rare. In college I had 2 Korean classmates, and they mostly kept to themselves. So, I'm not familiar with how people use this expression.

A couple of years ago I met a Japanese man through my then boyfriend. He was handsome, beefy, and a bit taller than me. We hit it off right away. He told me about Japan, and I told him about my country. It was fun.

However, during the day my BF kept acting cold towards him. It was uncomfortable because I wanted him to feel at home. So, even though they were friends, he spent most of the day with me. At the end of the day, he said I was "cute" and he was happy that we met. He gave a big hug and left.

So, was I in a love triangle there? In my country we don't use that expression but I have noticed that "cute" has a special meaning for Japanese people.

Excuse me if I'm just being silly. I'll show myself out. (▰˘◡˘▰)

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Someone recently recommended me, Honey Bear. I haven't read it but according to the tags the seme is a virgin. (●'◡'●)ノ

I was just complaining to myself about the lack of "Clark Kent" type of semes. Thank you yaoi gods for answering my prayers! And an alpha at that? Instant manifestation.

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I'm tired of getting jump scared by Reverse Thinking. Do you know if you can block a BL for being recommended? I'm guessing you can't, but I thought it was worth to ask around.
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Hello everyone!
Do you have any recommendations of a story with a big, hunky seme with a petite soft uke?
If the seme is a green flag you get extra good vibes from me! that can be exchange the next time something good happens to you! You find a dollar in the ground? well, that was the result of the good vibes I'm sending you!
Triple the vibes if the seme is protective, shy, submissive or a puppy!

(▰˘◡˘▰)

SoftPussyboy like question

Hello everyone!
Do you have any recommendations of a story with a big, hunky seme with a petite soft uke?
If the seme is a green flag you get extra good vibes from me! that can be exchange the next time something good happens to you! You find a dollar in the ground? well, that was the result of the good vibes I'm sending you!
Triple the vibes if the seme is protective, shy, submissive or a puppy!

(▰˘◡˘▰)

SoftPussyboy asked a question

Hello everyone!
Do you have any recommendations of a story with a big, hunky seme with a petite soft uke?
If the seme is a green flag you get extra good vibes from me! that can be exchange the next time something good happens to you! You find a dollar in the ground? well, that was the result of the good vibes I'm sending you!
Triple the vibes if the seme is protective, shy, submissive or a puppy!

(▰˘◡˘▰)

SoftPussyboy answered question about question
I have a preference for certain positions and appearances. I think it's fine for everyone to have them. We shouldn't take personal what other people prefers or waste our time yucking their yum. Like, I would love to see a big buff submissive seme with a pretty dominant uke, but I haven't found any.