I canāt put my finger on why but thereās something about the art thatās really throwing me out of itā¦everything just looks soā¦oiled up? The detail kinda crazy
real it was giving ai
People keep mentioning her age but isnāt she just in her 30s? And heās in his 20s? Yet they talk about her like sheās an old woman..and she herself acts like sheās decrepit and heās a child. Like, Maāam youre not old and thatās not a baby. Maybe itās just a cultural difference but Iām not getting why everyone brings up her being older and divorced so much. Especially when ginger guy is doing the same thing, yet no oneās in the story constantly calling him old man or reminding him that his lady is younger.
I think it's about power balance. An age gap of 10byears might not be that big, but remember how she doesn't know who he really is? To her, he is just some kid and she probably feels weird. I know I would feel like a groomer if I were her.
You canāt āgroomā an adult though and thereās no power imbalance bc she was left with a huge debt by her ex husband.if anything theyāre in the same boat. And again, itās not just her dating someone younger. Ginger guy is dating someone younger too, but no one is his story is calling him old or saying heās taking advantage (even though heās literally doing that to her). In fact his coworkers encouraged him to go after someone younger.
First of all you need to chill. Second of all, I think we can all agree the husband is a jerk who is taking advantage of the innocence and inexperience of that girl to fool her into being with him despise his numerous red flags. Is there a power imbalance? Obviously. Yes, his colleagues encouraged him because a lot of men are a-holes and predators. I mean, just look at the way they talk about women in general, as if they're things to be possessed. Third of all, I only said Haesoo probably FEELS like she's grooming him, I didn't say she actually does groom him. She doesn't know who he is, to her he is an inexperienced kid. And yes, this would normally be a power imbalance. If I compare my 32 years old self to my 22 years old, then I can definitely say I was a child at 22 and someone 10 years older than me could have easily profited. Now, this is a particular case because Taeha's real identity makes him the more powerful one, meaning the imbalance is actually in his favor since Haesoo being poorer, non influential, unaware things, at an obvious disadvantage. Still, I repeat, to her he is a kid. I am 35 and I would have so many reservations towards dating a 25 years. Being of legal age doesn't automatically make you an adult.
I think it is a cultural thing, I also find it strange she calls him "kid" but to her it's just a cute way of addressing him ig?
Iām not here to argue, you gave an opinion then I gave mine. Youād feel guilty for dating a grown man then thatās you. Heās 25, heās not a kid. They met as adults. And I was only calling out the storyās double standard on how the characters treat the two relationships. Also if youāre 32 with a 22 year old kid youre basically saying you got pregnant at 10 which would imply conception at 9 or 10; most girls donāt even get their periods until 11 or 12. Itās a fiction, no need to lie to defend your point. Quite frankly itās not that deep to lie on an illegal porn app. Jesus christ
Like telling me to chill when I wasnāt even being rude is actually insane. Have a better day girl
Yeah thatās what Iām thinking, I can definitely see it being a cultural difference. And now that you mentioned it, the kid thing could also be a term of endearment, I hadnāt even thought of that. Lol
considering how you are throwing it around like a buzzword, you clearly do not know what the word grooming means
I personally think the author just wants to emphasise how women don't go for younger men often for many reasons and how women look at themselves as objectively much older at 35 than men at 35.
I can see that. I just feel sad for her, sheās made to feel guilty for her relationship, for her age, by everyone around her, and whatās worse is she does it to herself. She treats herself like sheās āexpired goodsā when sheās still a young woman with lots of life to live. The double standards from how the characters treat her vs how they treat her ex just rubbed me wrong lol. Like her coworker? exhausts me. Cause Iām pretty sure he told her heās taking advantage of her and sheās got no rage towards him but is lecturing her about age.
Called it. I knew the actor athlete thing was likely true. So many have been exposed recently, I bet there a lot of them with secret odd tastes, kinks, and habits.
Saw a white haired man with glasses and clicked almost immediately. Theyāre always so fine
I love angst but Iām wishing na hae soo nothing but peace sheās been through enough, just give me another cute date chapter before the brother starts wreaking havoc
The chapters always feel so short I need MORE especially with the priest. Heās so hot omfg
If the celebrity one is real, I wonder who it is. Thatās kinda crazy, but with all the recent stuff thatās come out about some actors and idols recently I canāt say Iām too surprised some of them have more ādisturbingā interests. Still, kinda wild to think someoneās fave might secretly be paying a woman to pee in a trashcan for him
the way u worded it made me clock that there rly are celebs out there w/weird ass kinks like this story's eugh
WHAT??? SHE WENT BACK TO THE CLUB??? Bro really said āthis isnāt rape. U like when we do this! So come back to the club girl!ā aND SHE WENT āyou know what??? True.ā AND WENT BACK???? AND THEN????? She jUST??? Lies about being assaulted by the ugly guy to provoke a rich guy that actually does assault her????? So does she hate it or not?? Cause why did she agree with glasses guy and go back??? Lmaoo sheās actually stupid. Idc if that sounds bad to say, sheās a whole dumbass if she hates it. And weird if sheās claiming to hate it but likes it? Like?? just say u like it if you do?? Live your truth girl.
Ugghh I need more stories like this