
Can someone enlighten me tho, I assumed poly relationships should be about being equally loved but is being in love with one person while that person loving them all also a poly relationship???

yep! poly relationships come in all different forms. if your partner is strictly monogamous they can just date you, but that doesn’t mean that you must only be restricted to them (though of course you have to communicate between each other) (and all parties involve must consent).
monogamous people like the idea of a closed relationship where there’s equal love between all people involved but in reality, most of the time it’s a polycule (a network instead of a closed circuit)

Im just wondering, if your partner is monogamous who consented into you being poly, isn't that tiring for them, is it still love? Not to offend anyone I'm just really curious. I mean if you're monogamous you would call it cheating, right? Or it just doesn't matter as long as they know you love them?

it’s more like accepting that they’re that way? i mean it’s complicated so you really have to talk it out with them and see what you’re comfortable with. as you said, it can be potentially tiring for the monogamous person (though, imo it really depends on how you view love as cheating is going behind your partners back so no, it isn’t cheating) but usually poly people stick together? it’s also since even if you choose only one partner that doesn’t mean you aren’t poly.
hope that made sense ww

And the people saying all of this people saying they all need a therapist, I got here after reading a manhwa with a therapist x patient and it's also a psychological one hahahahha few more and I wouldn't be able to trust therapist too.

This one
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_third_perspective/
Also this one tho the therapist here is not the MC
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/interview_with_a_murderer/

And in case you don't know, when you're a victim and managed to gather the strength to tell other people and somehow got a positive response from them, you will still not be able to fully trust them, you will still not be able to think they accepted everything you said. You will still be anxious and wonder if every concerns you're hearing is genuine. So just imagine what one will feel if they got a negative response after they gathered every strength and courage they have.
What the heck is with this artsyle daaamn so good. I love the details.