From my perspective, the mother hasn’t done anything wrong. Since when is it inappropriate for a mother to ask her son if he’s dating someone and whether she’s a good person? Why would she be expected to ask, "Are you dating a man?"—especially if she comes from a traditional or Christian background? It’s not something most mothers in such environments would naturally consider.
Even if she has certain beliefs or biases, it doesn’t mean she deserves harsh criticism. It’s understandable that her reaction may not have been ideal, but expecting immediate acceptance isn’t always realistic. Just because society is becoming more open-minded doesn’t mean everyone is on the same page—some need time to adjust, while others may never accept it.
At the end of the day, people have the right to be with whomever they choose, but from a mother’s perspective, any unexpected news about her child’s life can evoke a strong reaction. And when it comes to deeply religious families, their beliefs often shape their views, whether others agree with them or not. It’s important to be realistic about these differences instead of expecting instant change.
Plenty of people get annoyed when their parents keep asking about marriage, babies, etc etc. It makes you feel like they're just trying to get you to make a grandchild for them- which is honestly degrading & annoying. I do agree that people are taking this manhwa (!!!) way too seriously, because like.. she's a fictional lady. And I doubt mc's problem is the same as our's, real people's LMAO
I'm right smack in the middle of the time my folks are looking for a groom (we do arranged marriages in my place) so I get annoyed about being asked about marriage itself. I prefer to stay single tbh. But seriously, this lady wasn't even that annoying compared to some other manhwas anddd my real life ongoing experience.
I get what you’re saying! It can be really frustrating when parents treat marriage and kids like a life checklist rather than something personal. It almost feels like their main goal is to secure a grandkid rather than caring about what you actually want. And yeah, people are definitely overanalyzing this manhwa. She’s a fictional character, not someone dealing with real-world pressures like we do. It’s wild how seriously people take it when, at the end of the day, it’s just a story.
I totally get that! When marriage talk is constantly in the air, even casual mentions can feel exhausting. And arranged marriage pressure? That’s a whole different level. Honestly, compared to some of the dramatic, overbearing parents in manhwas, this lady was pretty tame. But still, dealing with it in real life is a different kind of frustrating. Stay strong!
Why is everyone blaming tsar for losing it when it was Vladimir fault? I mean, come on.... Who says something like that, even if it was me I would react, maybe not like that but I would have done something.
I like Vlad but please get your heart straight..... But on a serious note, am getting scared for leewon and I won't be surprise if it was Dimitri who wanted him dead and I think he is
And here bangs the question - if they both alpha, whose gonna be the bottom?? It better not be my baby but then again....I can't imagine anyone else fitting that role
babes they are fictional teenagers, the author could very well draw them in their 20s, 30s or whatever and same to anyone who does fanart. If they were real people, making and marketing such content would be illegal simply put, but let’s not conflate fiction to reality and assign misguided morality to things that, i reiterate, arent real. You might not like seeing these comments, hate them even, for which you are welcome to mute/block/skip/reply but that doesnt make them morally nefarious or creepy, come on!
Okay babes hear me out , Just because these characters are fictional doesn't mean that consuming NSFW content of them do not have real world implications, Despite them being fictional , you cannot say that these characters aren't based on TEENAGERS , the idea of TEENAGERS . Teenagers having sex is common experience that all forms of media depict , but SEXUALISING TEEN BOYS IS NOT OKAY AND IS HELLA WEIRD .
Okay can we forget about all the real world facts and all... This is just a story... If you were really that worried about teen sexualization...skip the manga...and read the mature ones.
I just ask a question because I was curious, no need for all this many talk and what not... Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and thoughts... Whether it's weird, creepy or facts live it be
By far from what I read , this doesn't include teen sexualization , Yes that's true everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I'm not shaming you for having your own thoughts about the same either but it's mindful to know that the actual post you made can be considered as Fetishization , But there is nothing wrong with having a fetish! ( BL as a genre is Fetishization ) But as long as you can differentiate it from reality that's alright ! And ps , i don't mean to be rude at all , you do you girly.
Thanks for the summation girly.... but asking a question has nothing to do with fetish because I don't have any... the main story was not unsexual... so I asked just to be sure.
And you can't, I repeat you can't and won't be ablebto shame me because there is nothing to be ashamed of....it at all the whole bunch of bl readers should be ashamed.. if need be.
You only think it's fetish because you are the type of person you has fetish and it's creepy. The fact that you bunch could even think of my questions to he such.
I get it if my questions upset a lot of people, because I watch byuel grew up as a kid, whether fiction or not its a part of me and I wouldn't want to watch such a scene so I ask, maybe the way I asked it's wrong.. you guys only need to point it out rather than making the whole thing turn to a table to childish discussion.
It's only people who has reality with fiction that will turn a question into a passage way all manner of jebrish talk.
And pls, I don't mean to be rude at all. You do you girly
Thank you for summarizing, but let me clarify a few things. Asking a question has nothing to do with having a fetish, and I want to make it clear that I don’t have any. The main story itself wasn’t inherently unsexual, so I only asked to understand better. There’s no shame in seeking clarity, and you won’t be able to shame me for something that isn’t shameful. If anyone should feel embarrassed, it would be the entire BL audience, if your logic were to be applied.
The only reason you think it’s a fetish is because you’re projecting. It says more about you than it does about me, and honestly, that kind of mindset is unsettling. My question had no malicious intent, and if it upset people, that’s unfortunate—but it’s worth noting that I grew up with certain stories (like Byule) that shaped my perspective. Whether fiction or not, these stories are a part of me. Naturally, I wanted to understand a particular aspect, and if the way I asked came off wrong, all that was needed was a simple explanation—not turning it into an immature debate.
Only people who struggle to distinguish reality from fiction would twist a question into a passage for irrelevant, exaggerated assumptions. Again, I don’t mean to be rude, but this situation could’ve been resolved without the unnecessary back-and-forth.
You do you, though. No hard feelings, girly.
Besides, I wasn't talking to be but the general audience
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First of all i don't need to have a Fetish about it in the first place to mention it out and i don't really think this was a childish discussion but this was quite unnecessary, yes , But there are people who take it as in a fetishising way too and i mentioned it out because we live in a society, simple as that no hate at all .
Good, then let’s leave it at that. I don’t see any need for further arguments or clarifications.
If my reply came across as hateful, please know that wasn’t my intention—I don’t harbor any hate at all. I initially thought of deleting the question that started all this, but I’ve decided not to. The 16 thumbs up it received shows that many others were also curious, and I’m glad I asked.
Moving forward, if anyone chooses to derail this discussion into more unnecessary talk, I’ll address it directly.
Thank you! (⌒▽⌒)"








Plot twist, he actually meant just sleeping together in th same bed
can definitely see that coming. hahahaha his looks might look like a but he's surprisingly naive on some other departments
I'd be so happy seeing them just cuddle huhuhu
True
Me too..