
the way the industry operates kind of fosters these crazy obsessed fans. they create an illusion that you are close to these idols/celebrities and that they're your friends because you "know all about them". so some of these people get attached and start to believe these idols belong to them as if they're not real people with feelings and lives of their own. and the industry promotes this behavior with keeping outside relationships secret and boxing these idols in. i know not all fans are like that but it's such an unhealthy culture that's been created...

can someone remind me why are they keeping it a secret again? I don't think their co-workers would mind. I guess they're gonna wait till they're super serious like moving in or engagement or marriage?

I think they mentioned because they don't want their coworkers seeing/treating them differently. I don't think they're worried their coworkers would judge them, it's more this this their professional environment and the both of them thrive on their departments just the way they are now. They probably wouldn't want the constant teasing and jokes and they probably think they couldn't keep up the "professional" relationship they greet each other with in the office.

I feel like once they get to a serious point in the relationship like about to marry or move in they should just tell everyone I mean they're gonna invite those people to the wedding most likely. but it will probably be revealed beforehand because some rival comes in and so one of the two of them is gonna just tell everyone they're dating so everyone knows they're taken lol

glasses guy is my fav. someone point me to good-looking glasses/megane who are the main love interests in manga shoujo/Josie or whatever that are actually good guys and not jerks. I've already read our precious conversations and also haru x kiyo though I would prefer the guy be more like the guy in this one

here's some glasses guys that i like
Mobuko's Love
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/mobuko_s_love/
Kuki ga
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kuki_ga_yomeru_shunnyushain_to_buaiso_na_sempai_no_hanashi/
Primitive Boyfriend
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/primitive_boyfriend/
Our Precious Conversations
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/our_precious_conversations/

also this one right here fits the criteria of good looking glasses guy that's actually pretty caring
Island Manager
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/island_manager/

the next chapter is so sad

I saw that he looks for Erin and her mom everywhere and doesn't find her and as time goes he feels his memories of her disappearing so he has to constantly remind himself of her. and he's super depressed because he's wondering what the point of everything is. upside is he saves the first crown Prince and locks up the bad prince. as far as I've seen, which isn't much, he still hasn't found Erin:(
Akira reminded me a lot of Kazehaya if Kazehaya was more bold and didn't wait 100 chapters lol
OH MY GOSH THAT IS SOOOO TRUEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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