
10 years age gap( ̄∇ ̄")

Heck, physical-wise, I don't care about the age gap, even if someone is 20 years older than me (almost or around their 40s). Ex: Gong Yoo, Rain, Eun Ji Won, Kim Heechul, Leeteuk, Daniel Henney, Won Bin, Cha Seung Won (even he is in his 50s) still looks so good.
The only challenge to overcome is mindset and generational gaps (in terms of interests, entertainment, language, and technology). The hardest thing about having an older partner is sometimes we have differences in how we face and deal with problems.
Depends on the person, some older people can treat you like a kid and take you less seriously, thus very bossy and stubborn. They will expect you to know and understand a lot of things as much as they know. They have a higher expectations and complaining when you can't do simple shit - they often forget that they are also much older than we are. Usually this happens more often when the woman is much older than the man, compared to the opposite. When the man is older, oddly enough I've never seen/heard such cases. The most extreme one perhaps when the male partner often decide things on their own - but this can also happens in normal couple. (These were all what I conclude from what I heard from people around me. However, we still can't generalize things).
Btw, my partner is 11 year older than me, but thankfully he is open minded, wise, and very very caring. When I had a same-age partner, we fight more often since i learned that same-age partner tend to be more selfish and don't put effort to avoid conflict or understanding other people (again, this is my experience, can't generalize to everyone).
Yessssss fuck it up iris