
TMI!!!: thats actually how i warmed up to my father. Turns out as a baby for the longest time i never let anyone other than my mom touch me including my dad. One day i got sick and my dad tried to take me to the hospital. Again i was screaming wiggling, but then he goes to the car and his friend is riding the car. I look at the stranger, look at my dad and hug him and bury my face in his shoulders cuz im at least familiar with this foul creature. My dad still talks about that day.
I know for the smut’s sake you make em do it fast buuut idk. Even if you want her to regret it and avoid him later, you could just make her not drunk just heartbroken, and they do the boomshakalaka, and she can still regret it even when it was her sober decision. Just me tho.