NO. Punishment NEEDS to be discussed BEFORE. And this play wasn't even agreed either, MD decided all on his own and made Chanwoo participate even when he's clearly uncomfortable
NO. Punishment NEEDS to be discussed BEFORE. And this play wasn't even agreed either, MD decided all on his own and made Chanwoo participate even when he's clearly uncomfortable NyaruLee
There is a safe word that they have established long before this one event. All chanwoo has to do is say it.
There is a safe word that they have established long before this one event. All chanwoo has to do is say it. TinyTokyo22
I've said this 20 times before. He didn't say it even when he was almost CHOKED TO DEATH. Chanwoo isn't aware of his limits. His DOM has the RESPONSIBILITY to look out for him, to not push too hard. And he is ignoring it because he is being a petty asshole. Also, the slap was UNCALLED FOR. And again, before EVERY PLAY AL THE TERMS NEED TO BE DISCUSSED. That includes the reminder of the safe words. But whatever. You probably don't even care.
Hahah, been there, done that. I didn't know when to stop and got into a few scary situations until I found the right partner. I mean, I *know* this is just a comic, but I don't like that something that is still looked down upon gets even more hate because of shitty portrayals like this one. No, abuse it's not BDSM, It's tiring having to explain it. I don't know if the author is actually gonna make him stop before it gets too far, but as of now, he is being an awful Dom.
Hahah, been there, done that. I didn't know when to stop and got into a few scary situations until I found the right partner. I mean, I *know* this is just a comic, but I don't like that something that is still looked down upon gets even more hate because of shitty portrayals like this one. No, abuse it's not BDSM, It's tiring having to explain it. I don't know if the author is actually gonna make him stop before it gets too far, but as of now, he is being an awful Dom.
y e s say it louder for the people in the back. The way MD is acting right now, pulling the "im the dom so do as I say" card, it is all just an excuse to get a free pass for being an asshole. Like as soon as that choking happened he failed as a dom. He literally edged Chanwoo into very dangerous territory despite knowing how stubborn and irresponsible Chanwoo is. And now he is using his power as a master to manipulate Chanwoo into something he is clearly not comfortable with, again knowing full well that Chanwoo will refuse to leave or say the safe word due to pride. It really doesnt take a genius to see how toxic their relationship is. But I guess it takes maturity to understand, something I feel many people in these comments lack. Heaven forbid they seek out a real bdsm relationship and wind up in a dangerous/potentially life threatening situation.
I’m a criminology grad specializing in sex crimes. There’s a lot of victim blaming here, bc people fail to recognize the boundaries of what bdsm is and what domestic abuse is. Bdsm is consensual planned play, anything beyond that is domestic abuse. Abuse is not consensual. Chanwoo was not told any of the situation beforehand, and is known to be mentally/emotionally unstable. Traumatized people cannot consent. But I am 99% sure that the author is going to make this out to be that Chanwoo was wrong for not going along with it, and have him end up with md.
There is a safe word that they have established long before this one event. All chanwoo has to do is say it. TinyTokyo22
that's not an excuse to hit your sub when it wasn't discussed before hand, especially when MD hit's chanwoo it's out of anger. you don't mix bdsm with personal feelings. that's now how bdsm works. it's also built on communication and trust and i don't see that at all.
i actually dont really know since the events are mixed up in the manga and they get the ring in the last episode but in the manga they get the ring in the beginning
i actually dont really know since the events are mixed up in the manga and they get the ring in the last episode but in the manga they get the ring in the beginning strawberriecake
That your first love appearing out the blue may cause some strain on your present relationship and if you feel that conflicted, you should take a break and sort your feelings. That's not the way you treat a perfectly good man.
Uh no. Inhun is super homophobic. He wasn't jealous that Seungho was talking about Nakyum. It was coming to the realization that the relationship between Seungho and Nakyum was more than just physical.
Uh no. Inhun is super homophobic. He wasn't jealous that Seungho was talking about Nakyum. It was coming to the realization that the relationship between Seungho and Nakyum was more than just physical. Peach276
That the slap was a part of the play, it was not really violence. Is it true? Experts please help!
NO. Punishment NEEDS to be discussed BEFORE. And this play wasn't even agreed either, MD decided all on his own and made Chanwoo participate even when he's clearly uncomfortable
There is a safe word that they have established long before this one event. All chanwoo has to do is say it.
I've said this 20 times before. He didn't say it even when he was almost CHOKED TO DEATH. Chanwoo isn't aware of his limits. His DOM has the RESPONSIBILITY to look out for him, to not push too hard. And he is ignoring it because he is being a petty asshole. Also, the slap was UNCALLED FOR. And again, before EVERY PLAY AL THE TERMS NEED TO BE DISCUSSED. That includes the reminder of the safe words. But whatever. You probably don't even care.
Hahah, been there, done that. I didn't know when to stop and got into a few scary situations until I found the right partner. I mean, I *know* this is just a comic, but I don't like that something that is still looked down upon gets even more hate because of shitty portrayals like this one. No, abuse it's not BDSM, It's tiring having to explain it. I don't know if the author is actually gonna make him stop before it gets too far, but as of now, he is being an awful Dom.
Hahah, been there, done that. I didn't know when to stop and got into a few scary situations until I found the right partner. I mean, I *know* this is just a comic, but I don't like that something that is still looked down upon gets even more hate because of shitty portrayals like this one. No, abuse it's not BDSM, It's tiring having to explain it. I don't know if the author is actually gonna make him stop before it gets too far, but as of now, he is being an awful Dom.
y e s say it louder for the people in the back. The way MD is acting right now, pulling the "im the dom so do as I say" card, it is all just an excuse to get a free pass for being an asshole. Like as soon as that choking happened he failed as a dom. He literally edged Chanwoo into very dangerous territory despite knowing how stubborn and irresponsible Chanwoo is. And now he is using his power as a master to manipulate Chanwoo into something he is clearly not comfortable with, again knowing full well that Chanwoo will refuse to leave or say the safe word due to pride. It really doesnt take a genius to see how toxic their relationship is. But I guess it takes maturity to understand, something I feel many people in these comments lack. Heaven forbid they seek out a real bdsm relationship and wind up in a dangerous/potentially life threatening situation.
I’m a criminology grad specializing in sex crimes. There’s a lot of victim blaming here, bc people fail to recognize the boundaries of what bdsm is and what domestic abuse is. Bdsm is consensual planned play, anything beyond that is domestic abuse. Abuse is not consensual. Chanwoo was not told any of the situation beforehand, and is known to be mentally/emotionally unstable. Traumatized people cannot consent. But I am 99% sure that the author is going to make this out to be that Chanwoo was wrong for not going along with it, and have him end up with md.
Thank you so much for all your opinions. It really helped me understand the situation better.
that's not an excuse to hit your sub when it wasn't discussed before hand, especially when MD hit's chanwoo it's out of anger. you don't mix bdsm with personal feelings. that's now how bdsm works. it's also built on communication and trust and i don't see that at all.