louis May 23, 2020 9:39 am

That the slap was a part of the play, it was not really violence. Is it true? Experts please help!

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 9:40 am

    NO. Punishment NEEDS to be discussed BEFORE. And this play wasn't even agreed either, MD decided all on his own and made Chanwoo participate even when he's clearly uncomfortable

    TinyTokyo22 May 23, 2020 9:43 am
    NO. Punishment NEEDS to be discussed BEFORE. And this play wasn't even agreed either, MD decided all on his own and made Chanwoo participate even when he's clearly uncomfortable NyaruLee

    There is a safe word that they have established long before this one event. All chanwoo has to do is say it.

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 9:48 am
    There is a safe word that they have established long before this one event. All chanwoo has to do is say it. TinyTokyo22

    I've said this 20 times before. He didn't say it even when he was almost CHOKED TO DEATH. Chanwoo isn't aware of his limits. His DOM has the RESPONSIBILITY to look out for him, to not push too hard. And he is ignoring it because he is being a petty asshole. Also, the slap was UNCALLED FOR. And again, before EVERY PLAY AL THE TERMS NEED TO BE DISCUSSED. That includes the reminder of the safe words. But whatever. You probably don't even care.

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 9:59 am
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    Hahah, been there, done that. I didn't know when to stop and got into a few scary situations until I found the right partner. I mean, I *know* this is just a comic, but I don't like that something that is still looked down upon gets even more hate because of shitty portrayals like this one. No, abuse it's not BDSM, It's tiring having to explain it. I don't know if the author is actually gonna make him stop before it gets too far, but as of now, he is being an awful Dom.

    NyaruLee May 23, 2020 10:00 am
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    Hahah, been there, done that. I didn't know when to stop and got into a few scary situations until I found the right partner. I mean, I *know* this is just a comic, but I don't like that something that is still looked down upon gets even more hate because of shitty portrayals like this one. No, abuse it's not BDSM, It's tiring having to explain it. I don't know if the author is actually gonna make him stop before it gets too far, but as of now, he is being an awful Dom.

    Rui_Vi May 23, 2020 10:28 am
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    y e s say it louder for the people in the back. The way MD is acting right now, pulling the "im the dom so do as I say" card, it is all just an excuse to get a free pass for being an asshole. Like as soon as that choking happened he failed as a dom. He literally edged Chanwoo into very dangerous territory despite knowing how stubborn and irresponsible Chanwoo is. And now he is using his power as a master to manipulate Chanwoo into something he is clearly not comfortable with, again knowing full well that Chanwoo will refuse to leave or say the safe word due to pride. It really doesnt take a genius to see how toxic their relationship is. But I guess it takes maturity to understand, something I feel many people in these comments lack. Heaven forbid they seek out a real bdsm relationship and wind up in a dangerous/potentially life threatening situation.

    juuulya May 23, 2020 10:34 am
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    I’m a criminology grad specializing in sex crimes. There’s a lot of victim blaming here, bc people fail to recognize the boundaries of what bdsm is and what domestic abuse is. Bdsm is consensual planned play, anything beyond that is domestic abuse. Abuse is not consensual. Chanwoo was not told any of the situation beforehand, and is known to be mentally/emotionally unstable. Traumatized people cannot consent. But I am 99% sure that the author is going to make this out to be that Chanwoo was wrong for not going along with it, and have him end up with md.

    louis May 24, 2020 4:53 pm

    Thank you so much for all your opinions. It really helped me understand the situation better.

    kei May 24, 2020 6:11 pm
    There is a safe word that they have established long before this one event. All chanwoo has to do is say it. TinyTokyo22

    that's not an excuse to hit your sub when it wasn't discussed before hand, especially when MD hit's chanwoo it's out of anger. you don't mix bdsm with personal feelings. that's now how bdsm works. it's also built on communication and trust and i don't see that at all.

louis May 22, 2020 3:02 pm

Shin

louis May 20, 2020 8:54 am

Can someone tell me which chapter the story left off?

    strawberriecake June 7, 2020 8:21 pm

    chapter 10 i think

    strawberriecake June 7, 2020 8:51 pm

    i actually dont really know since the events are mixed up in the manga and they get the ring in the last episode but in the manga they get the ring in the beginning

    louis June 8, 2020 6:39 am
    i actually dont really know since the events are mixed up in the manga and they get the ring in the last episode but in the manga they get the ring in the beginning strawberriecake

    Thank you

louis May 18, 2020 8:12 am

That your first love appearing out the blue may cause some strain on your present relationship and if you feel that conflicted, you should take a break and sort your feelings. That's not the way you treat a perfectly good man.

    sunday May 18, 2020 8:22 am

    wow perfectly captured my feeling

louis May 15, 2020 4:28 pm

Reread it and now I want a spin off with Yonghee.

louis May 11, 2020 8:17 am

And I like it so much. I'm starting to think I have it too after reading so many of them.

I don't even have anyone to call hyung and I'm a girl, its pretty much of the table but I'd still like to call someone hyung. Weird.

    louis May 11, 2020 8:19 am

    *off

    chic May 11, 2020 8:50 am

    If you are a girl, you use "oppa" instead of "hyung"

    Fetish Love May 11, 2020 12:37 pm

    i'd rather use hyung too tbh

    Amber Liu a solo artist and ex?? member of f(x) uses Hyung :)
    check out her work, i highly recommend!! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

louis May 9, 2020 5:21 am

That cracked me up.

louis May 9, 2020 5:14 am

BDSM gets really complicated if your feelings are all over the place.

louis May 7, 2020 8:34 am

Seems to be in love with seungho, kinda sorta.
He first asked him to come with him for the test and then he looks jealous that Seungho talks about NK.

    Peach276 May 7, 2020 9:26 am

    Uh no. Inhun is super homophobic. He wasn't jealous that Seungho was talking about Nakyum. It was coming to the realization that the relationship between Seungho and Nakyum was more than just physical.

    louis May 7, 2020 4:17 pm
    Uh no. Inhun is super homophobic. He wasn't jealous that Seungho was talking about Nakyum. It was coming to the realization that the relationship between Seungho and Nakyum was more than just physical. Peach276

    Oh I interpreted wrong maybe. Thank you!

louis May 5, 2020 4:45 pm

All I could think about was Giovanni's wound reopening. Gosh that could turn into something ugly very soon.

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