LushiferianII's Topics (264)

You're not scum, I can relate with him too, and I don't think that me nor Toua are scum, I just think that Toua is messed up, but Jirou knew that he was when he continued his relationship with him, he's no innocent.

I'm sorry but I have to say... you are scum too.
Of course we can save ourselves on the shield of "you knew that I was like this!" and stop blaming us, but the truth is that from the start we shouldn't be like that, even less if there's someone who love us.
Yeah, this boy have some problems... He shouldn't drag Jirou with him.
He knows what's going on and refuses to see, He hurts him and just keep going.
If that's not beeing a scum, I don't know what it is.

Wow, you're so rude haha, I was trying to be kind with you, you don't even know me hahaha. I felt related to him because I'm afraid to love, not because I'm scum if you feel that you're actually like that than sorry for you. You should know that after EVERY behaviour there's a background story, I don't trust men because my dad remarried with another woman 5 months after my mom passed away and my best friend's brother tried to rape me, so yeah, I can relate to him because I don't want to fell inlove and If you want to call me scum because I broke the hearts of the guys that fell inlove with me (even though I didn't love them) then do it.

But even in this manga you don't even know why the protagonist is like that, you have even though about their college days and why he was son unpleasant with him? There must be something about his story that you don't know.

It so disappointing how I just wanted to be gentle with you and you're just offensive going to be offensive, you can relate to a character because of their personality a threat, etc... I can relate with him for the reason that I have just listed, feeling related doesn't mean that you're just like that character and your situation is exactly the same.

And I have many typos because it got really late and I don't even noticed because I was studying, your comment was the last thing I was gonna read before going to bed, and just make me feel offended (I don't know if that was your intention, but that's how it make me feel, and I can't do nothing about it, sorry). So I was typing really fast, replying to your comment, and I didn't see all the typos that I commit, so I'm sorry if my comment doesn't make any sense, but I'm honest with everything that I wrote, specially with this... Don't ever tell someone that they're scum, not when they're trying to be kind towards you, you don't even know them.

If I have typos again (and I'm sure I have some because you can't edit in this page), sorry. It's really really late.

I get you, I felt related to Toue too, and feel sympathy for a character or related somehow does not mean that someone is just like that character. This person was really wrong at calling you scum when he doesn't even know you and you were just trying to be kind with him/her. Yuki407, SMILE!!! Sorry about everything that happened to you, but cheer on! You're a nice and lovable person, maybe someday the love will come at you, try not close the doors with a heavy lock (▰˘◡˘▰), love you girl!

Lushiferian, here's what you don't get. While Toua is somewhat dragging Jirou along, it's kind of the other way too. Jirou follows Toua around. Their relationship is very mutual - very 'both-sided'. They both love each other, yet they both choose to keep the line of "sex friends".... Why? Because Toua is afraid of anything more. Jirou respects Toua's fear because he loves Toua. Yeah, it gets problematic for Jirou at times (and he gets hurt from it).... But Toua is struggling with it too. Toua sets him up with Takashi, but is jealous of it when he hears them doing it. Toua is not scum. Toua is scared. And that is NO reason to call him, and especially no reason to call people who relate to him, scum.

Best wishes to you, KiryuuYuki! Do your best.

I'm sorry you had those experiences! I've had some bad experiences myself, but I still never felt like that, that it would make me more cowardly. Quite the opposite actually, I became more honest, by the time I was twenty I just stopped playing the game. All those dating games you learn to play are really just a bunch of crap, I'm more like Minami, honestly and openly express how I feel and what I want. And now I have the perfect relationship thanks to it. I never hide or keep anything to myself, all my desires, all my worries and insecurities, all my dreams and plans for the future and all my love is right out there in the open. When we met, me and my partner, I was also very very afraid of being betrayed and cast aside but we honestly talked about it (many times) and they didn't blame me for being distrustful and eventually over the years the fear subsided until I have no fears and no distrust left. I hope that you too can find the strength to leave the past behind you and feel safe in your relationship/s.

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Sometimes bad experiences make us stronger and more resilient, have faith in your new partner and if it doesn't work out you will get up and try again, don't be discouraged by others actions it's a bad reflection on them not you, you got this I believe in you!! (⌒▽⌒)