So it's a black n white manga where the uke and seme r playful in childhood n uke is blonde while seme is dark haired. A fire separates them n ruins the ukes fam n life wherein he doesn't understand shit but is made to be at an assh*les beck-and-call and he's just a kid turned adult n that's the first thing he's been taught yet he doesn't understand it n seme later rescues him n makes him understand about consent. The ukes fam was rich smth n it was set in mediaeval period ig.
There's a side couple with a dark skin hot arab and a strong badass guard uke.
But it's when they praise their bottoms that they like it. And esp better if the bottoms r in dire need of praise or like a moment of acceptance lol n it's a mix of emotional and hot both hehe.
Only one that fits could be Define the relationship and the latter part is cuz I want to think so, (〃ﾟ3ﾟ〃)
Just like that meme, A Loving Healthy Relationship X Nasty Disrespectful
