I seriously hope he isn’t pregnant dammit right now is not a good time
These white haired bitches be squeezing in everywhere
LMAOO FR
This motherfucker is more stubborn than the boy who lived wtf
But if hinata and kageyama are on different teams then what about their legendary quicks?? And them leaving everyone just gaping. And them being called the freak duo. And then jumping together when winning ?? And kageyama going all like HINATA BOKE!!!
Like I get why yall are happy but I can’t (´༎ρ༎`)
Dude, Miya atsumu is also on that and he can perform those quick sets too. ;)
And Bokuto too(▰˘◡˘▰)
But it's not the same haha
But it won’t be the same at all tho
Ok so I have to say this but I see a lot of people commenting about yukki. It’s just yukki this yukki that and I don’t get it. Literally every other comment is on how people can’t get over yukki and miss him or he and mafuyu were perfect etc.(also these comments usually end with “don’t get me wrong I love Ue but...”)
After seeing all these comments I got really confused and thought that I was missing something so I went over the manga and anime and realised that I did not. All we have are the flashback snipets from the anime and not all that much in the manga. We barely got to know yukki as his own person or anything barely under the surface.
So what I’m trying to say is that these comments frustrate me to no end for we can see Ue trying so hard in expressing himself and trying to show mafuyu that he love him. We get to him as his own person and as a boyfriend but literally no one is giving him the hype that he deserves. I want Ue to be able to fully love someone the the other person to love him back because mafuyu is not really doing a good job for even if he did say he like Ue he still never actually tried to show it and it pains me.
At this point all I care about is someone loving my baby Ue and people to realise that they actually have a character who requires their love rather than the character we barely know of
Lol saw those too, some people were hating on Mafuyu too for getting over him "so quickly"?? Like thu fok, if Yukki was as great as they think he would have wanted Mafuyu to forgive himself and be with someone that makes him happy
Yeah i feel the same. Mafuyu needs to express his feelings towards uenoyama more. Sometimes i feel like he only went out with ue because he wanted to move on and forget about yuki and that thought is painful. ╥﹏╥
first of all, it's not easy to get over someone who died. even if he is not your lover. so I can't even imagine how he hard it was for him to get over someone he LOVE so much that kill himself and the guilt too. so I say let's see you handle it better.
has for showing his love, are you for real? Mafuyu was the one who told him he love him first! he was the one who followed him first too while UE was the one who avoid him and try to run away. for a while now Mafuyu was the one who show him his feelings the most in this story. but he still have problems, traumas etc...he mostly act more like a human been then any character in this story!
I think that is also why others think it's too early for a new relationship. Mafuyu is still obviously traumatized and haunted by his guilt. Confessing to uenoyama is indeed a step forward but still a bit risky. For me, I'm just scared that the two will crash and burn. This is Ue's first relationship. And this is mafuyu trying to move on and be happy for a second time. Ue being all excited about this new experience while mafuyu being extremely cautious. Some of ue's expectations not being met, reason for us demanding mafuyu to express more. Yes its hard for him but Ue is with him now and he dont need to face this alone. By expressing more, we mean for mafuyu to share his pain and worries with his new partner. To include more of Ue in his life. And to heal by having Ue's support. I just feel like he isn't letting Ue in. I know it must be the trauma, so i hope he will, someday. I just hope the best for those two. I can sense a violent storm of emotions coming.
it's not too early, has we seen Mafuyu way of living after his lover dies. if it wasn't happening in this time, he would have never break out of his shall and to life like he did with the help with the others. I say others cause it's not only his love that help, but all the band. that's why it felt so human and real, love can't fix all and maybe it's not suppose to be. you not suppose to heal from everything you had in life, but maybe become someone a little better slowly. and I tell you now, Mafuyu become much better, much confident and found himself again in music with the help of UE. this would have never happened if they never meet or fall in love.
so no I don't agree at all, life is a risky thing, you suppose to take risks to move to the future and becoming a better person than who you are. yeas it's hard, but it's better to move to the future then staying in the past.
again UE is just been himself and feeling new things, they are in high school, that what you suppose to do. finding new things, new feelings etc.. has for his "expectations" not all expectations should be meet in a real relationship anyway so....it only makes it more realistic that way.
has for him facing it alone, it's not easy to always "share your pain" with others. from the simple fact UE didn't felt what he felt, he didn't lose someone he loves to death and you can't explain it with words how it feels like. but I do believe he does try to share his pain with him in his own way, but you could never share everything.
I think you missing who Mafuyu is even before the death of his best friend/lover if you think he can just "expressing himself more" his character is the kind that doesn't talk or share what he was thinking most of the time. but he does try to share it with little things, little actions - like the time he comes to sleep in his house and UE found him acting weird at night and hug him tight. that Mafuyu way of calling for help, of asking to share without words cause again words can't explain what he feels. THEY CAN'T!
you basically saying Mafuyu should act not like himself and share things he can't share, what again is kind of pointless cause again that HIS CHARACTER! has for UE support, he does heal him if Mafuyu actually taking a step to the future, join a band and play music and actually wants to start a romantic relationship despite all the risks and pain he felt in his past.
I don't know what you called "heal" but I see it has a big heal for his character compared to the start that he just sit and sleep most of the time. and I"m sure he will be much better when he grows older. healing is not something that just "happen" and that's it, you healed. it something that comes and go and you need to work hard on it to maintain it.
I think you should stop wanting to change the characters, and look at it from their perspective and who are them has people and humans that act in a sorting way all their life.
Yes, of all this! Thank you for saying this because it’s exactly what I was feeling frustrated about but couldn’t really put it into words.
Thank you! I was really confused too! I thought maybe in the anime they showed more of him because in the manga we get almost nothing.
SAY IT LOUDEEERR
I don't know man, I still don't approve that starting a new relationship with someone is the best way to get over a death of a love one. Although yes it might help with learning to trust again and stuff but that also means you will hurt the other person involved. its a slow painful process. I've experienced losing love ones so much so I know how mafuyu feels. We are very similar too. It breaks down your soul. So unless you are willing to let that other person enter your life fully, then i don't think you shoud let them in at all. It will hurt them to see you hurting and not being able to do anything. Even if they did, they won't understand how you feel. So this would also depend on UE's efforts on relating to mafuyu. And pretty sure mafuyu hurts too about this things.
We are exactly thinking of that same scene.
Ue not knowing how to help. And mafuyu hurting alone even tho Ue is just right there. If Ue didnt notice mafuyu being weird then that night will be finished and we wouldnt know that mafuyu was having a breakdown. Mafuyu did not reach out that night. He planned to shoulder it all on his own again. He didnt want UE to know. Not because it was hard for him to reach out but because he thinks its better NOT to involved UE and trouble him with his pain.
This kind of thinking is what I want mafuyu to slowly develop. If I were mafuyu ofcourse I wouldnt want my friend to know. But still, they are "partners" and not just friends, that changes things. He has someone he can trust. He knows UE will try and understand him. If he didnt think the same then he wouldnt enter this relationship with UE. If he still thinks UE will be like yukki then that is the unfair thing. Ue is not yukki. That time when mafuyu is shaking because he and Ue is having a small fight. I praise mafuyu for saying how he feels. That he is hurt and his trauma is knocking again. If he would tell UE everytime he hurts then he wont feel so alone. He doesnt have to say it in words. Hold Ue's hand or just look at him. We can't count on Ue to always notice things on his own. He will tire himself trying to understand.
Well it turned out okay for starters. So for me, I wanted to see a development for mafuyu. (Not because I'm hating him or anything calm your horses) They entered a romantic relationship, if this was just normal friendship then I would stop expecting. They became partners, so I just hope mafuyu feels like there is someone who will try to understand him fully. Not just because its out of his character and that its already the best he could do. Please don't ever say that. Pretty sure Mafuyu is troubled by these same thoughts as well. I just want our fluff boi to grow. I didn't mean to rush it. Its a very slow process. I would love to see him GROW as a person. Because it IS possible. Smile more and enjoy music more. And its not being out of character. It is being more. "More" If you want him to stay the same then how is that helping. There will be more breakdowns until he can think of yukki and smile, those will be very painful sudden attacks so I wish he would include UE in the fight. They have come this far. You did mention how he is better than he is before. Exactly. He is healing. But I just hope he would fully let UE in. Every time he will breakdown it will feel like square one. Ue should be there to remind him of how far he had come and hold his hand.
As for Ue, I'm sure he would lash out on all of us the same way you guys are doing right now and hug mafuyu tight. But hey, mafuyu will get what we are saying. it's a give and take process. If they want to commit fully then both needs to be very open to each other. Again, not rushing things. Slowly. We are just stating the facts.
And after mafuyu realize this and Ue reacting to his response. They will both grow as partners. And we will lecture UE's case next lolol
I think it too early for mafuyu to truly open up to UE. but I do believe he fully in love with him, like I said before, he won't tell him he loves him without meaning it in the full meaning of the word.
I think he does trust him, but I think he need time to learn how to show and share his pain. even before they become partners he wasn't the easiest guy to share his emotions with others. but like we seen in the story, UE was the guy he open up too first, read the first chapters when ue wanted him to join the band and how scared he was. that what I mean when I say healing. I think he getting there and we might not see the full healing or him growing up into an adult, but we know he is in the right way. he is healing with UE and I think UE know he have a past, and accept it fully while knowing what he get into. and you know what, I think ue and mafuyu are happy together, despite everything and mafuyu problems.
they still growing every chapter has partners and they still getting to know each other more, they still young so they have all their life to find out. and I have no doubt, ue will help mafuyu become a batter person, even if he didn't get over his best friend/lover death and would never get over him. I still believe they are good together, they complete each other ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
I feel so sad for Uenoyama because you can see him trying so hard. His character differs so much from the other characters. You can see that yukki was a great influence on their lives and was given great importance and treated as a unique individual and uenoyama understands that but really feel any of it deep enough. I cannot even stress how much I know this feeling personally, how everyone understands this feeling that you yourself cannot properly grasp it. You see him struggling to understand this yukki that’s left behind the yukki he will never personally now, trying so hard to understand because everyone is treating him as an inferior by saying that he’ll never understand. And let me tell you how much it hurts when others say that you’ll never understand.
It’s also seen that to an extent uenoyama feels himself to inferior to yukki and constantly compares himself to him because even when he’s trying so hard all anyone can think about is yukki.
I want my baby to realise his own importance his own uniqueness and find his own and I want and hope that mafuyu does something anything to help.
i think that is a little bit difficult to accept yourself when everybody, even the person you love, is comparing you and making you feel inferior with a fucking dead person that you have never met. i really feel like mafuyu doesnt deserve uenoyama.