
I like how they’re not screaming at him and forcing him to say I AM GAY I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. Cause we often see people force them or keep asking them to tell the truth of their sexuality.
Also if the family and his boyfriend wants to protect him, then that’s good. A lot of times, family and the partner aren’t the one protecting you

I down voted your comment. Not because I am homophobic. But because you are condoning lying, specially about something so important. The number one thing people ALWAYS complain about in this site is lack of communication. And you are saying that it is ok for his boyfriend and his whole family to keep something so big from him. He has a right to know. "it's for their own good" is disrespectful and manipulative. I get they meant well, but think about how he is going to feel when he finds out. Wouldn't you feel embarrassed, hurt that your loved ones don't think you are mature enough and strong enough to handle your own decisions? It was the wrong call.

You know what's insulting and manipulative? Forcing him to talk about his sexuality when it's obvious he's not comfortable outing himself yet. Jonghyun has every decision to tell his family he's dating Chaeheon, but he didnt and he's secretive cause he dont want to go out of the closet yet. Chaeheon's family meeting in private is their way of accepting him without confronting him "hey i heard your gay thats why you want to move out, is that true?" -- that's what gonna be insulting. And then, since his mother is not accepting of it, the conversation will go "you'll have a hard time with life etc, why dont you like women, etc, maybe you're just confused" -- and now that's manipulative. If jonghyun wants to be involved, he would onset outed himself to deal with the truth even before his family figuring it out by themselves.
And if you know what its like to have a gay family member who's in the closet, you'll understand that the greatest form of support a family member can give is accepting that person in silence, if not openly supporting them. For parents who are still stuck with the old ideals and could not wholeheartedly support their queer/gay children, supporting them in silence even without saying it, is a form of love too.

Disagree. Nobody is forcing him to come out. But the mom didn't remain "silent", did she? She did plenty of talking with the sister and the dad and the boyfriend. And THEY decided that it would be in his best interest if they kept it from him. That is downright disrespectful, insulting and hurtful.
And if feeling like you can't confess to the people who are supposed to love you unconditional is painful, I can only imagine how terrible it must be to be pressured by them to meet a nice girl and start a family. If the mom was truly supportive, her first instinct after suspecting he is gay wouldn't have been to try to set him up with a girl. The only reason she didn't was because of the sister.
There is a big difference between loving your child no matter what and being supportive of them being gay. Her love for him is not in question, as proven by her concern for him. But a truly SUPPORTIVE parent would either sit him down and tell him that they know and they love and support him no matter who they love or they would say nothing and DO nothing until their kid is ready to tell them themselves. They don't lie and scheme behind their adult child's back.
I have a teenage son and I have openly talked to him about homosexuality. I have tested the waters to see what his interests are. Would I be scared shitless for him if he ever tells me he is gay? Of course. The world is not a kind place, specially now a days. But I love him and respect him too much to plot behind his back and to encourage his partner to lie to him. Who does that!? Talk about bad parenting! And the uke has a right to know, and "it's for his own good" is the most manipulative and controlling thing the parents of a GROWN offspring can say.
BOOOMSHAKALAKAHHHHHH.
anyways the sexual tension is painful when your not sure if he is into you or this is just how he is built aka he is playful. Lol. I’ve been there babes, don’t jump in the moment cause he might be just friendly