
this would've been such a good manga if the female lead didn't switch up and do a complete 180 to be a housewife and only purpose is to please the male lead.... she was so independent and secure in her job which she still could've had on top of being a good wife to him. their relationship are so doting and affectionate but i wish it was written better

For real! She turned into those people that had their shit together, and instead of a relationship empowering them to be more, they minimize themselves for their partners. nothing we've seen so far after the accident is anything she had to quit her job for to "take care of him". He goes out fine with his injury while she stays at home! (╯°Д °)╯╧╧ it's damn shame she's just like yeah I'm a firefighters wife now so he's the priority now ヽ(`Д´)ノ
sejin has suffered so much and even when he was abused by his adopted father he still rmb the guy as the one who saved him from freezing to death in the streets and adopted him. in a way, after all the abuse he endured and this engagement to ido (1st and 2nd life) sejin felt that it was necessary to repay the debt and that sejin owes his adopted family. ido is proactively helping sejin move forward to break away from the clutches from his adopted family bc ido knows what happened in the 1st life (sejin still doesn't) so for ido to destroy his adopted family even the way they treated him, ofc sejin would feel betrayed and doubt. much like how ido doubted sejin in the 1st life. ido is being super cryptic with his words and asking sejin repeatedly to be on his side and stay with him (basically begging sejin to give him the benefit of the doubt) but sejin doesn't know everything so it's hard to wrap his mind around it. the layers of complication stems from their 1st and 2nd lives which will be unravel pretty soon