
I said it before, I'll say it again: WE know Iris feels like she's receiving comparatively less love from Mildred - because we've been observing her reactions over several chapters. Mildred doesn't have an omniscient viewpoint like we the readers do. IRIS is the one who said that she doesn't want to treat Ashley well bc she blames Ashley's father for causing their situation. Mildred responded to the concerns that Iris herself communicated. Stop acting like Mildred brought the blaming thing up out of nowhere just to make Iris feel bad, when she was just responding to Iris' own words. Mildred's doing her best with what she's told.

I actually love that she had to get reincarnated 8 times before the drastic shift in personality. It made sense for her earlier timid personality that with her first several tries, she'd just try to Be Better For Them, So They Would Love Her. Only after 8 failures does she finally truly accept that there is no changing them. She got to experience every possible outcome and confirm for herself that these people well and truly aren't worth her love and effort. Good for her!
Man, Lerazie must have really coasted on her looks all her life, because there is not a single braincell present. "Most men fall for me at a glance, how can this be" most men can't see your thoughts at a glance, clearly Izana was not impressed, fix your personality before you worry about your looks. But then I can't blame her, imagine a psychic hot guy seeing both your and your arch-enemy's thoughts and deciding your personality is less attractive compared to her. I would wanna reject that realization as long as possible too.
Frrl her personality is so crappy and she wonders why he doesn't pick her?!