
You know, I enjoy a nice character development or a nice redemption arc as much as the next door person, but I also think not every character deserves that.
For example, a character that was a bad dad or a bad husband can redeem, if what they did was just neglecting them, I have seen nice developments and receptions.
But if that character raped his wife and beat the shit out of his children, you know, I don't feel like I want to see a happy ending with this very same character, yeah, he might have changed, but the bitter feeling doesn't go away, and is not really as satisfactory.

Very few mangas/manhwas with reincarnation/transmigration themes don't address the weight of the previous life of MC.
It always rubbed me the wrong way in this kind of gender, they only remind their previous lives if that knowledge is useful for them, such as modern technology.
Most brush it off giving them miserable lives, enough to not want to return, or they would forget and get over their own previous lives quickly, don't get me wrong, I love a bunch of stories despite that, I don't think they are less well written characters, but I just wish a grieving/mourning moment for their past lives and for the one they took, that would give them even more character.
This one exploits that flaw that was in most of those works and makes a new story out of it, genius!, it feels fresh.
She feels so painfully real.

I don't get how does she not understand he is in love if not, obsess with her.
She herself, asked him to be obsessed over her, and second, she has live for more than 400 years, she has live enough to know what the previous monarchs studied but nothing about love? Ah, I was hoping for her to not be that kind of MC.
This blondie screams danger, the second guy actor seems like a jerk so far, and HOW? Is that the brother seems the most reasonable for him to end up with? If I was him I would rather die.
Ik its like pseudo incest but its wayyyy bteer then the other two,, your about right from ur comment and from the raws (which I wont spoil)