
What really irked me is how all precautions were out the window.
Why play in a public setting where he is more anxious? Why not stablish a safe-word? Why make him feel abandoned and alone? Why always surprise play with no prior agreement?
Specially if you are tackling trauma. You can easily retraumatize someone when doing something like that.
Ik she's supposed to be new to this and in a position of power/responsibility but going willy-nilly is so irresponsible.
Trauma is a can of worms no one knows whats gonna come out of it

I'm sorry but if can't figure out how to comunicate with your child until after they reach adulthood, then it's not a miscommunication problem, it's a "you are an egotistical asshole" problem.
And that's for both of them!!! If you can't tell your daughter thinks you don't love her. That's probably because you don't deserve her in your life.
Is there a novel?