
I think the reason why many people are more angry with Shizuma is because he got a third party involved in his and Minato relationship meanwhile Minato is just insecure, jealous, and not opening up to Shizuma. They are both wrong in their own way but people can relate more to Minato with being the one who have to witness his partner being chummy with someone else. Especially with them working together and shared similar interest. In the past, Shizuma also doesn’t like Minato hanging around those two people and Minato stop hanging around them. It all comes down to boundaries.

The seme is avoiding the uke because he cannot bare to see the uke care and think about another person when he’s with him. They were in bed but his thought was somewhere else about another person. How hurt is that?

I know what you mean but what can he do when the uke put himself in those situation. The seme already told him to stay away but the more he tells him to stay away the closer he is with the other dude. I feel both of them. I know the uke isn’t thinking about anything but it really hurt if you’re the one in the seme position.

I wonder if this will be different or go like the typical shoujo storyline.
In normal shoujo both Yuki and Naruse will probably go days and weeks without communicating and then the ex will be the one who come in and help them fix their problem. Like she will tell Yuki of the situation and explained what happen and say Naruse only love Yuki. Then this will make Yuki feel bad and then go to apologize to Naruse and then Naruse will say sorry as well that it is also his fault for not telling her.
Let’s see how it goes...

i have a feeling it’s not gonna go that way bc even tho she knows naruse has a gf that is super nice to her and treats her well knowing she’s the ex of her boyfriend she still gets all blushy and stuff which doesn’t sit right with me and she should’ve told yuki in the first place ‘hey while we were at the shrine naruse helped me out w some guys and then i hugged him and he comforted me out of obligation or sum bc she’s his gf like she doesn’t need to explain why she was crying but eh

I find it irritating that she was lost in thought in her lovely past with her ex after seeing him at her wedding plan. When the ML wanted to have another planner instead of her ex, the FL wasn’t worry whether if the ML feeling was hurt or not but she was worried that she would not get to see the ex anymore. What?!!! It worried her to the point that she snuck out and meet him herself. Asking the kind of questions like someone who isn’t over her ex yet. Wanted to confirm whether he became their planner intentionally because he knew it’s her and why did he break up with her.
I find it fishy, like she still have feelings for her ex. Why would she want to continue seeing him, her ex?
Shizuma had before said to Yuka his ex gf, “you said that on purpose. You know I can’t resist you when you do,” in front of Minato like nothing. He is this kind of nice oblivious guy. Did he mean anything by it, no. He didn’t. But because he didn’t mean anything by it is what’s making this alarming because he doesn’t see a wrong in saying that to his ex gf in front of his current bf.
What I’m trying to say is, it’s okay to be a nice person but there needs to be boundaries on what’s acceptable and what’s not.
Suppose, if I have a partner and my closeness with my new friend I just made is making my partner uncomfortable, I would tackle that immediately. If I see the change in attitude and behavior in my partner after my interaction with my new friend then I would reflect on my actions and draw boundaries. I wouldn’t need my partner to spell it out that they’re jealous and that they hate seeing me hanging out with this new friend. I would take action even without them verbally spell it out.
The thing is, Shizuma knows already that Minato doesn’t like him hanging with this director. He know. That’s clear. It's just, Minato hasn’t said it out to him. Also, Shizuma underestimated the seriousness in this and didn’t think much of this and kind of brush it off. I feel like to Shizuma he can still do whatever he can with the director as long as Minato doesn’t know about it. That’s why when the director pop his head out he think to himself “why did the director has to pop his head out at that time.”
Holy shit I forgot about that. “I can’t resist you”, ik he didn’t mean that but bro if I was Minato I would’ve been so confused and like ???.
I swear Shizuma be saying the most unecessary things. He also compared Minato’s social skills while aware of his trauma to the boss by saying the boss is more pleasant in social skills. He’s annoying me.
Also what did Yuka say for him to say that shit?
That was when I think a cow was giving birth and she called shizuma begging for help and he went to help her
She said “you’re the only one I can count on” I think
Shizuma didn’t have to say it like that lmaoo I thought Yuka said something weird.
To add to that, he also helped yuka when she was looking for her keys (during their gathering), in front of minato!!
Tatsumi tried consoling minato that yuka and shizuma dated for years so it's only natural for shizuma to remember yuka's quirks
But really? How dense can you be T.T Can you, idk just not do that in front of your bf?? Who you're aware of that is super insecure.
Kinda hypocritical for shizuma also bc when minato and tatsumi were getting chummy bc minato was teasing tatsumi, he fr got jealous