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Recently my mom's been kind of accepting of trans people. She talks about how bad they're treated in my country. I was kind of glad that she was starting to be accepting. She's still homophobic tho. So today she was basically saying that she accepts transgender people but doesn't want any of her kids into it. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry. She reminded me of a character in a book that said " I don't hate lgbtq+ but I don't want any of my kids to be gay"
And I guess I'm never coming out as pan then ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

How does it work? Like yall read boys love but can't stand them irl. How does your brain work?