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Spooky stds~

sorry this is way off topic but like I need to know with aids who gets it is it the top or bottom or both?! I say bottom but my sister says the top(￣∇￣")

Both can catch STD, they are both in contact with and exchanging sexual fluids. Same thing for girls, btw.

thank you for explaining(▰˘◡˘▰)

LMAO fr, I'm was waiting for that one chapter or scene where everyone gets scared and happy about him finding out he's pregnant, I want their gorgeous babies running around already

well I scrolled through the comments here and everyone is outraged with that slap.. I personally don't find it that disturbing. Rn they are in the master slave scenario to which chanwoo previously agreed. He then goes against his master by disobeying his orders. The master puts him back in hi solace with that slap (which is really not that hard and simply serves as a demonstration of power and hierarchy) but at the same time gives the slave (chanwoo) the option to leave any time. That offer is in my eyes the important thing: he gives him the choice to either leave any time he thinks he can't do it or to abide to his masters requests and follow through but then he must show full obedience. This is classic master-pet play and I found it well executed

Says this is “well executed”, while having no idea what bdsm is lmaoooo

That's what I think as well, which is why I'm so hella confused why people are outraged by it. .-. Because regardless of the intent, MD still slapped him while they are playing. Technically, it's still consensual and excused coz Chanwoo agreed to this set up- a master & slave one. Also, safe words exist for a reason (and Chanwoo has one), and he can use it anytime he thinks that MD is crossing the boundaries.

But I don't really know that much about BDSM so I can't really say who's right and who's wrong.

This play is not consensual. None of this was discussed beforehand. MD knows Chanwoo is traumatized and unstable, but uses that to his advantage to control him. An unstable person AND someone being controlled, cannot consent.

oh shit you're right I think I kinda forgot about that / confused this ... then of course it's not right... I thought it was consensual... but we never got the scene where chanwoo actively agrees right.... sorry my bad

well the thing is that there are many different forms a bdsm relationship can take.. the most important thing is that both parties know and respect the limits of the other and don't overstep it. I think the problem in this scene is that MD knowingly crosses it by putting chanwoo in his place even tho he openly showed that he doesn't like it... even tho he didn't say the safe word you can still see that he is not comfortable with the situation and MD knows that very well since he knows his sub and his limits as such. And that I guess is the problem everyone is talking about... He exploits that situation and chanwoos discomfort to maybe get him to obey and eventually surrender to him and that form of oppression is no longer considered consensual bdsm play.. But it took me a reread of the chapter to kinda grasp that before I kinda read over some parts and missed the core of the situation

I am kinda shocked but I am not outrage or something I was like "so this is BDSM"

I am actually getting new information about BDSM through your replies so thank youuy

My thought exactly

exactly!!!!

yes quite obvious

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