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No two couples are the same, and different people have sex at their own pace. Some folks don't want to have sex without an emotional connection, some people need/want both simultaneously, and some people are a-okay just to sleep with others to test a relationship at the physical level beforehand, etc. I'm not sure where the author got this impression...
The male lead is such a selfish piece of shit and I'm not into it. Sadistic? Try misogynistic.