
Personally* I don't like spin offs... If there's a mother fucking triangle I like to keep it as a triangle which either ends as a triangle, or a couple and a third wheel being happy for the couple. BUT I HATE IT when suddenly there's this WHOLE other story about the third wheel who finds himself a man..... I mean.... I guess I don't like the idea of love changing so easily.... Plus I like more drama man.... but when everyone has a pair, there's less drama. Just personal preference.

Wow I preferred if the third wheel finds his own happiness with the one he loves and created his own family so then everyone is happy, sometimes drama can become a tradegy

Same. At first characters suffering from unrequited love have my pity. But the ones that refuse to move on or even try just creep me out tbh. At least try y'know?

I dunno what's so bad about the hyung... I mean... yeah. I think it's a good plot and a really good portrayal of human psychology...
PLUS not that this is what the hyung is trying to do but I think the best way to say no to someone is to be direct as possible or maybe even cruel. It certainly ain't polite but if you are afraid of hurting them, I think you are just scared to be the bad guy. Just being greedy to stay as the nice guy you know? If the other party is unable to let go and you know the end of the relationship will never turn into a good friendship between exes, the best way is to help them forget about you clean with no strings attached...

rape is still rape
And I still love yaoi

That part didn't. That part looked like battery. At that point, there was no consent.
But then he was thinking about how good if felt and if he should. Then he opened his mouth and said, "okay."
Now, there is consent and what happens after is consensual (until he says no, if he says no).
The part that happened before he said okay was without consent, and that was battery, possibly sexual assault, but there was no penetration.
The part that happened after he said okay was consensual, and that's when penetration happened.
I call rape by name even when I like it in stories (and I do like some romanticized rape stories). But if one person gives consent without being under some kind of threat, it's not rape. This isn't a romanticized story of seduction because clearly we know it all goes horribly wrong...but he did consent in this chapter before penetration. So far we have manipulation and battery, but we also have consent for sex.
who doesnt like a harem?