
i really wish guanshan would genuinely reciprocate affectionate gestures because he wants to and not just be forced/coerced to do so every single time. it's so disturbing to see him make a face as though he's about to cry.
there's no fun in shipping if one party legitimately hates the other one and wants nothing to do with them. while it seems that gs does care for ht to some extent, his consent when it comes to any kind of touching is always extremely dubious and it's really just not enjoyable seeing him suffer. what i am saying is, i wish they would have healthier relationship like xixi and jian yi's.

well Mo is really weird just how much can he ba a tsundere, i mean i know he care of H e Tian but he is always using his filthy mouth to say filthy things he is sooo rude, he is not even wanting to understand He Tian, he is always like SCRAM F**OFF and all the other harsh words, even if He Tian is just clinging to him without doing any weird stuff, his angry behavior stimulate He Tian's violence, they r not going to anywhere bcz of him initially, i mean if i was Tian i'll smash his head bcz he smashed my balls but naaah we all know that if Mo told Tian to die he will die, anyway this is if this was a serious webtoon , but this is a 4koma going to nowhere so neither ur POV not mine are important , this type of webtoon is made to not make us so serious about it , it doesn't even need He Tian to be a gentelman nor Mo to understand Tian, it is just like that we need to accept all of this bcz this is not a drama nor a serious webtoon

just because it's not 'drama' doesn't mean it cannot have people dealing with their feelings/issues in a healthy way. i agree with one thing, the manhua doesn't really have a set storyline, so it's kind of all over the place.
you seem to be sympathizing with he tian a lot, i think you could try to see this from guanshan's pov as well? gs is indeed a foul mouthed, brash and impulsive person. he is also naive and guarded for the most part, which seems to stem from his family issues and the garbage people around him. now comes in ht, who doesn't seem to have an understanding of personal boundaries or patience. ht is also very impatient and to a degree, spoiled. i believe you need to have lots of patience when dealing with people like gs and give them space so they don't feel suffocated. ht constantly smothers gs with unwanted and unwarranted affection, a clear breach of gs's personal space which gs hates. gs repeatedly tells ht he doesn't want or like his affections which ht chooses to ignore bc he's spoiled. anything gs does to ht after this is entirely ht's fault.
your claim of gs's brash attitude "stimulating ht's violence" is... pretty disturbing. that's victim blaming 101 right there. let's get this straight, ht's violence is entirely his own fault, he CHOSE to punch/kick/choke gs. only he is responsible for his actions, gs has absolutely nothing to do with it. guanshan's aggressive attitude is not an excuse for people to use as a free ticket to excuse or minimize their own violent actions.
am i perhaps analyzing it a bit too hard? probably. but it's fun to do so, so i don't really mind.

it could have been so much better without the falling in love with your rapist + blackmailer trope. it just essentially ruins it for me.
this is like a rapey version of The Lion Doesn't Refuse.

The rapey bit actually made me want to cry. I think there's a certain line that you cant really cross, even in yaoi. I get that it's in a lot of mangas, but like--at the point that the Uke is genuinely not enjoying it and wishing that it was over-- THAT is the line that shouldn't be crossed. I mean absolutely no disrespect to the author, but just--- that's to a point of being fully not okay.
jian yi looks super good in a skirt. it looked like xixi liked it as well. too bad for the cockblocker sister....