
Look- I'm trying to understand Winter, I really fucking am but this guy just makes me want to jump into this Manhwa and throttle him and throw him off a tall building.
He doesn't want to divorce Violet because he thinks she is his object, his possession, his to keep, his to abuse, his to discard.
He is emotionally abusive and the signs of it are all there in the story uptil now and are especially evident when he is angry or Violet is asking for a divorce. He demeans her at every point and it's not just happened once, it just keeps on happening. I fucking hate his guts and his past trauma is no excuse for the useless excuse if a human being he is right now.
Your trauma can explain your behaviour not excuse it and for Winter everything gets brushed under the rug because of it.

Is Kwon being a little unreasonable? Yes
But do I think it's a little justified on his part? Yes
Kwon is a realistic character and in my opinion the way he is acting rn is absolutely in sync with his personality we have been familiar with since the beginning.
Imagine getting yelled upon by the guy who literally left the person you like like trash, without any form of normal communication, without their consideration for the person you like only to have them accuse you of being toxic to the person you like.
Kwon is being a little toxic but having Taejoo come and thrust that into his face made the situation even worse. I love Yoon, I really do but it's time he makes a decision regarding both- Taejoo & Kwon.
Taejoo shouldn't go around feeling that he is Yoon's saviour because well he isn't and the saviour complex isn't helping anyone. If he really cares about Yoon so much he should tell him and try to repair their friendship maybe if his toxic boyfriend doesn't meddle that is. Taejoo still thinks that Yoon is his to save and as it's somewhat understandable as they have been together since a young age, but it's wrong and can be considered emotional cheating on his boyfriend. Is his boyfriend awful? Hell yeah but cheating in any form is equally a terrible deed to do and Taejoo should let him go.

You know what I'll never understand- the logic in these Isekai & sometimes historical stories that someone goes away for quite some time for work or to finish their studies and when they do come back, they are still infatuated with the person they left behind or had some feelings for; like don't people grow as time passes? Don't they meet new interesting people?
I don't know I guess it's just me but I can't understand how you would still be infatuated with someone you like as an early teen.

love is like that and it's different for different people. for example, with a book, you might like this now but sooner or later you'll feel less attached to it or it could be the other way around, the more you read it the more you like it. it goes the same with human feelings it's just different to the intensity of how we feel for something. i hope i'm making sense, i'm not made for explaining such complex things lolololol
Shouma thank you for having atleast 2 braincells together & Kirishima I can't see even with a freaking microscope what Yoshino actually saw in you- you are nothing but a wee little kid stuck in the body of an adult who gets a kick out of being an asshole in general.