
k the comments make me not want to read it but is it rly so toxic? Is this worth reading?

aha sooo :) well it is toxic, but not as bad as it’s made out to be. The reason I think most people hate it is because every single character has some tragic backstory or psychological problem. Also the progress of the couples is very confusing at least for me. BUTTT I really like this story, but ultimately I would recommend it if you like complex stories with sad characters (that you will love ;)). I enjoyed it but ultimately ur choice, I will say u get addicted to it th ;-;

Whatever you do, try not to interact with the comments on here or anywhere else cause the "fans" are way more toxic than the manga. I've gotten judge for my opinions and got told that I'm wrong....( ̄∇ ̄")
I feel like it's worth the read especially cause of the art and it feels like any soap opera/ k-drama. You will get annoyed at the characters and how everything is dragging on.

Totally worth reading. It's not toxic, it's just a story with well-written characters that are not perfect. They lie, they manipulate, they hide their true intentions because they're in love and they're all afraid of being hurt or rejected. They're just human: flawed, selfish, jealous...
So, if you like that stuff, you'll love Love or Hate.

thx y'all I'm kinda motivated to read it now
And yes it's way more interesting when it's like this. oh and I have a question. So I don't rly like it when you know (from the beginning) what's gonna happen. Kinda scripted. Like when the seme literally rapes the uke (and the uke crying and telling him to stop) but than later the uke suddenly likes the seme and they act like nothing happend. Is this manga kinda like this? I readed a lil and I don't rly wanna waste my time if it's like this

It's a story about flawed people making bad choices and (some of them) learning to fix their mistakes. People cry about anything being toxic on this site, it's just one of their favourite meaningless buzzwords imo lol.
If you like drama and complex, flawed, and perhaps problematic but definitely human relationships, I'm sure you'll enjoy it. Be warned that it's not healthy, pure fluff by any means lol

you def don't know what gonna happen from the beginning which is why there has been an ongoing shipping war between fans.
and no, there is no rape scene though there is dome dub con.
many people have decided to drop though cuz the end is neigh and their ship sank so if you wanna know who he ends up with I can spoil it and you can decide if you wanna continue or not

to be honest, i don't think it's really THAT toxic. just flawed individuals trying learn from their experiences. it's all about how they are growing as individuals and overcoming their differences and the limits that they have placed upon themselves which is brought by the situation they are in. it is very well written.

wait i think I'm kinda confused here. Doesn't the old dude like Ivan (i think that's his name)
so why does he try to harm hen? does he think hen is white heads bf? So if I get this right... he will stop trying to harm hen after finding out that hen is Ivan's lover? Or does he know, maybe he doesn't approve the relationship
UGH THIS WOMAN IS SO GORGEOUS TДT