Kawaii_meinu's Topics (81)

It is not

Oh ok thanks

Oh btw just to clarify I mean that Horus is mad because Seth wants to leave him for his ex. I fully support that Nephthys and Seth should talk out their past and get closure. But if Seth were to dump Horus after that it will make Horus feel used that he was only a rebound used for comfort and that will be a very shitty move on Seth's part because they are dating currently.

Why get angry at any of them when we could just be laughing at all of their antics: Seth the king of "leaving people hanging;" Horus the king of "ungrateful sons who date Mom's Worst Nightmate," and Nephthys the queen of "All of my siblings treat me as their personal punching bag'..."

Yeah but I just don't like it when people hate on the gay couple in a gay manga. Like nobody forced them to read it? Did they not see the tags when they started reading? You should read what you like and not read what you don't like. I never complain about forks being in the kitchen

Lol, forks in the kitchen, haha. But I get what you mean.

I hope u can at least empathize with the idea that (1) ppl can be caught off guard by a heated situation and don’t necessarily have comebacks on the ready, esp when they’ve been fortunate enough to have mostly accepting or blissfully ignorant ppl around and are not used to such a hostile reaction to their relationship (2) that Kirishima could have hesitated out of fewr making things worse or stepping out of line since it isn’t his family in the first place, esp when Toudou was alresdy insistent on leaving, and (3) that queer ppl don’t necessarily have to dwell on ALL “things involved” in their relationship, esp ones that are as pressuring, heteronormative, or as far down the line as having children. Being queer is hard enough on its own, let them enjoy their relationship without the constant worry, or without having everything figured out. That’s not half-assing.

I know this is… a silly thing to send a long mssg over since it’s just fiction, but this experience is very real for a lot of queer folks out there. I.. hope your hostility towards Kirishima remains here, just as a work of fiction. I hope you’re more empathetic to real queer people you might meet who are going thru a similar circumstance

Actually I am gay and that is why this was pissing me off. I have seen multiple people within my social circle get into queer relationships without thinking much about it and then when reality hits that they might not be as accepted as they would be in a heterosexual relationship, they either cheat on their partner or break up with them. I have been fortunate enough to not have experienced this with a partner but I have seen the amount of hurt it causes people when you start dating a gay person without thinking it through. Gay people are not just for experimenting with your sexuality (even though I am saying "your", I am actually referring to the people who engage in this sort of behaviour and not to you as the commentor)

I know that it is hard to think about these things but if you don't think about them beforehand and later on realise that this is not something you can handle, it can be even more painful. Many of the times it is more painful for the other party, though of course I know that is not always the case.

Also regarding the hesitation, I get that he may not have been prepared in a heated situation but since he was able to reassure the mother earlier regarding his will to make her son happy, right now his hesitation seemed to make him look kind of uncertain. I also think that when you know you partner's parents have been a cause for his suffering throughout his life, then you should have defended him or your relationship at least a little bit. There are multiple respectful ways to do so. Though of course this last part stems from my personal ideologies