
I personally find it super annoying and a huge turn off when Asahi stares at women('s tits) and flirts with them especially in front of Masato??? Like ik the author is trying to go for the thing where the top isn't serious and just likes it when the bottom gets jealous but I honestly find it super disgusting

Nope, looking at other people's bodies in a sexual manner (and I'm saying this cuz it's mentioned he looks at their tits) is not ok if you're in a relationship. What you consider cheating is relative but there are people who do. Also it doesn't matter if you're gay or str8, if you're in a comitted relationship you shouldn't be ogling at other people
Also if he prefers women that much shouldn't be just date them? Why's he making Masato insecure?

Because is implied is kind of a fetish, if you look at official art and the sexy scenes he usually touches and licks Masato's chest a lot too, he has a thing for that body part.
I thing is a tricky subject because I Personally, can't understand the "ogling" since I don't experience sexual attraction, but looking at attractive people even when you are in a relationship is not weird, and as long they don't cross any line I see no problem, I always thought it was a natural instict in other people, but, again I don't know.

No, I mean Masato experiences sexual attraction and doesn't do the same thing so I don't know why it would be considered normal. Also I would consider pointed staring as ogling because it was clearly shown in the extras as to where his gaze was with pointed direction. It's ok if you look at people in general and don't stare at their tits cuz if somebody was staring at my tits I would even consider it as harassment. In general staring at a woman's chest this openly especially when you're in a relationship (with a man who is very clearly insecure at that) is considered rude and vulgar in society because it is obvious that the person is not just appreciating their beauty from an aesthetic point of view but they are staring at the person's chest in a sexual manner which makes many people uncomfortable

Also if it is a sexual fetish then it is even more gross that he does that. I am very sorry but I DO NOT believe in the narrative that a person "can't control their gaze" because that will just lead to slut shaming and misogyny by men saying that they can't control their gaze so women should cover up if they don't want to be looked
( Ik u weren't trying to say that but I'm just clarifying in this comment)

Sorry but that is such a toxic mindset. I also grew up hearing that that is normal. But over the years I learned it is just an excuse from people with no self control or respect for their partners who say that, especially men. And their gfs accept it because that is easier than to address the way their man sees women as sexual objects instead of as people

It had potential.......but did Sakuraba have to flirt with those girls in the extras?? Also the part where he talks about another woman and calls her cute and says she's his type is just...... I think Asami was better off with someone else. Maybe the guy who drew him during their school days (≧∀≦)

it seems like the author is confused the whole time i was second guessing not only the uke but the seme as well cause their actions are so inconsistent? it's like the author decided to throw in some plot points to stir drama but it doesn't necessarily align to their previous actions or values, it's jarring lol

I agree! It's not a bad story but it's very predictable and cliché I also wish Asami would have ended up with someone else him and Sakuraba just don't work for me... like sure they had a thing and Asami especially fell hard but it would have been interesting to see him overcome his emotions and move on with someone else... also the ex with the pregnant wife just left a very bitter aftertaste in my mouth I don't understand why this is such a common trope in office themed BL it's honestly so sad...
WTF?! They're such shit parents?!?! If it was me I would've DROWNED their company!!!!! (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸