
i get that sitong's not a pushover and stuff, but is sitong never going to take action in his own love life? he likes zichen a lot, but he's totally comfortable with being idle, which ??? its hard for me to enjoy a character that doesn't seem to have any motivation, no drive to achieve anything themselves. like is it just gonna be zichen persisting until sitong gives in?
idk maybe its bc sitong is a bit too similar to me that im a bit resentful lol. i know this is not how it is in real life, which is fine. but if you want some kind of love life you have to actively pursue one and be responsive to other people, you can't just wait around for other ppl to notice you
also maybe slow burns aren't my thing. it gets so frustrating lol

ok i get that there is a redemption arc for chowon happening right now, and i'm with it. i want to forgive him and i hope that he can become a better person and be happy. but that doesn't mean automatically forgetting everything he did before. he hurt people, and pretending that didn't ever happen just doesn't do the character justice.
and yeah, he was and IS mentally ill, and needs to seeks professional help, and take it seriously mind you. but that is an EXPLANATION for his actions, not an EXCUSE. no one is excused for the actions they take, the horrible things they do, just because of their own issues and circumstances (with obvious exceptions)
epitome of staying in your lane