Kittykat's Topics (211)

right.. bro is a criminal!!

THANK YOU!!! someone finaIIy said it!!

I saw your other comment, “rape fetish enjoyers can go to hell.”
I’m hoping you grow out of this phase, you do not have to like or understand it, but you shouldn’t demonize people for having it. “Getting help” won’t do anything as you cannot control your fetishes, you cannot get rid of them.

Studies estimate that 20% to 50% of all people, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation, have or have had fantasies where they are forced or coerced into sex. It is extremely common, one of the most common sexual fantasies.

just because its common doesnt make it okay, and im sorry you dont have the intelligence to understand how the romanticization of rape in media affects society and perpetuates rape culture. because it does. it makes people think that this sort of thing isnt actually rape or that its not a big deal. considering there are so many rapists out there with most never even going to court, we need to stop thinking its okay for rape to be romanticized in media.

if you have a "rape fetish" you need serious help to understand its not a joke and its not something to want. you can want to be dominated sure but thats absolutely not the same thing. most people who actually end up roleplaying being raped are SA survivors indulging in self-harm behaviors. and men who are willing to play the role of a rapist are not good people, they are monsters.

I think the true reason why so many BL readers are okay with the romanization of rape in BL is because they do not perceive it as rape, a crime and a violation that causes lifelong trauma. It is disgusting for writers to portray rape as not traumatic, and to allow rapists and their victims to end up together even though the rapist should be in jail. Overall, get some basic sociology knowledge and get therapy.

I’m a gay man and a sexual assault victim. I don’t need you to tell me about BL or sexual assault. I know it’s not a joke, I know it’s not something to want. I literally have lists on this site where I catalog BL that contains rape, including cases where people don’t realize it is rape, for the purpose of people being able to avoid it. Your patronizing of sexual assault survivors for “self-harming” by indulging in kink that may be entirely unrelated to their SA is wrong. And your demonizing of people who roleplay is wrong.

There are theories out there of why it is so common - usually having to do with purity culture and shaming people for being sexual. People thus have fantasies where they are not responsible or at fault for being sexual - but they are still fantasies, and thus safe.
By that, shaming people for having this kink or indulging in it is only going to make it more prevalent. And many SA victims feel empowered by indulging in that kink, as they feel like they are able to cope with what has happened and feel safe and come out of it on top.

Encouraging people to indulge in safe, sane, and consensual sex where they roleplay fantasies is not going to make more rapists. The submissive party has the power to stop it all with a word or a gesture - while they may be at the mercy of their dominant partner, in the end, the sub has the power.

Allowing people to write and indulge in erotic fiction is their right, and it’s another healthy outlet for these fantasies. This story is more inoffensive than many others I’ve read, as it knows it is ridiculous and over the top, that rape is wrong, etc. It’s pretty much just senseless smut, nothing worth losing your mind over.

Also worth noting that you are constantly taking shots insulting my intelligence, mental health, and well-being. The worst I said was that I “hope you grow out of this.”
I’ve done a ton of research on this because I was concerned that I was not normal, that there was something wrong with me, that I needed to be fixed. After doing a lot of research, I came to the conclusion that I am normal, and there’s nothing wrong with my fantasies.
Again, I hope you grow out of this.

Yes because i am concerned about those things, genuinely. Learn more about how the media perpetuates rape culture, and what rape culture even is because you don't seem to understand. It's normal to want to be DOMINATED, but not to be literally RAPED. You clearly do not understand the severity of rape and how it ruins people's lives yet it is so prevalent. Rape is not a rare crime at all. I hope you grow up. GOOGLE RAPE CULTURE.

I know these things. I know the severity. You are the one telling me, a victim of sexual assault, that I don’t know what it’s like. Girl, look in the mirror, stop telling a victim they don’t know what it’s like. I’ve studied this shit in depth. Go research kink culture and its ties to human rights movements such as lgbt rights. Go research how you’re unfortunately parroting Trans Exclusionary Radfem talking points.

I know rape culture very well. I’ve taken several courses on sociology and sexuality that have covered this, and have had to defend it against actual misogynists and bigots who don’t take this stuff seriously in front of dozens of people.
A shitty kink BL that does, in fact, portray rape as rape and not as a good thing is what you are getting so angry over. There’s countless BL that does truly romanticize rape - one that’s just a shitty kink thing is not it. The kink itself is not it.
You have been out the gate being insulting and rude to me. Girl, grow the fuck up, and stop throwing a survivor under the bus for disagreeing with you.

But it DOESNT. In so many BLs, rape is absolutely romanticized with the victim ending up having a good time when in reality they would be traumatized. How is that not romaiticization??? And then, most of the rapists end up getting together with the victim instead of going to prison or even just being hated FOR BEING A RAPIST. Again you clearly learned nothing about rape culture in fiction. I've been through shit too, you cant pull the survivor card because it doesn't mean youre correct.

Portraying rape as something the victim can enjoy, and having the rapist be a love interest than ends up together with the victim is NOT OKAY. And enjoying a character being raped, regardless of if its romanticized or not, is fucking sickening and means the person has serious issues. Get out of my comments.

A rape fetish is not an acceptable fetish. I cannot believe I have to type this.

Yes i am a radical feminist. A trans INCLUSIVE one. We understand how rape culture actually works, that men do not deserve safe spaces to fantasize about LITERAL RAPE, and that victims roleplaying rape is actual self harm. Men who want to roleplay being rapists should go to hell, because if theyre getting off on playing the role of a rapist they need to leave Earth. I'm sick of having to educate you on how fiction affects reality through rape culture. Fuck your kink when real people are victims of rape culture, all women are victims of it.

Yeah, you DO need help if you enjoy seeing others being raped because you are diminishing the severity of literal rape. Doesnt matter if you are a vicitm. And roleplaying your own assault is self harm. GOODBYE.

No only English ones when it comes to Korean raws not a word from any of the white knights

Yeah I only hear about people only caring when it's pirated in English but not when it's Korean or in its actual native languages like Tkor and NewToki is just chilling with so many stolen manhwas and nobody says anything about it.

I agree. Some of the early chapters are pretty blurry so it'd be nice to have the official there

Yes. Unless the translation and typesetting were bad then it should be replaced. But it was well done by the scanlations group so i don't think it necessary to replace the good one