
If you had been through abused yourself I feel like one who has better understanding of the pain and shouldn't try to do that to others. But in horsey's case he just doubled it and gave it to the next person

No I think it depends. Most people who didnt recieve any love or care , most of the time dont know how to show love or even tell what they are feeling. Its a foreign feeling for them since the two people who are supposed to teach you that , not only didnt show it but abused him. So probably he confuses abuse with love. Thats the only feeling he is used to, so thats the only feeling he knows and since in the story its not shown he received professional help its most likely he never healed from the trauma, he just choose to forget wich is impossible

Just because she saved their father's life doesn't mean that he has to date her and if they (bf's family) had actually pushed pushed him into dating her they are then trash. Even after they had broken up, they are still trying to get them back together even when the ex bf doesn't seem to yearn for the fl or had actively chased after her yet to rekindle their burnt out relationship. They need to respect his feelings too and start treating him as an actual human beings with his own desires and wishes rather than a puppet who need to do whatever they ask of him. I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE FORCE DOWN THEIR WISHES ON OTHER PEOPLE.
As for the bf, if he didn't like the fl romantically he should have still tried to hold his ground even when his parents and sister were trying to push him into a romantic relationship with a girl he didn't like.

He is one of the worse uke dads for sure. Like how could someone fall so low to peddle off their own child like that and feel no remorse, but glee at their misery!!!? How self centred and narcissistic does one have to be to do something like that?
He knows Eihyun is his son, he saw him grow up heck they lived under the same roof for such a long time. And in all these years he didn't feel an iota of love or even pity for him? Instead he mooched off his son's hardwork, threw him under the bus and is AGAIN doing it. Oof
There are people defending JJK's actions saying that since he had been abused in his childhood he doesn't know better. First of all, JJK is a grown up now. He is 27 years old not a baby. He should have known better. You are telling me that in all those years he couldn't fix up his behaviour. Ok cool. Let's just go ahead and give him the benefit of doubt..
If JJK is truly struggling with all those issues then he should be going into therapy. Consult a psychiatrist or a therapist. Because at this point he is unfit of being in a healthy romantic relationship with Dan. I hate how all the time in these stories the seme who obv has some issues instead of going to therapy and rectifying his issues or even acknowledging them, instead doubles down on the uke. The authors make "love heals everything" trope really unpalatable with the way how the uke is continuously abused, suffers a lot, does the emotional labour from both sides for a problematic seme. Everything is from the uke's side and nothing is from the seme's side.