
Having someone on your side will make you stronger, especially with someone whom you love and love you back. Both of them, if possible, should seek a therapist??? It might not help, but it should at least wake them up from this silly game. It honestly is obnoxious. Things that could be solved better be off solved. It'll grow more decadent in the latter, and grieving won't solve the problem.
And then he opens the door, oH fUck