
I feel like there are more and more BL coming out where the men just fall in love and it's treated as something /normal/, no gay panic, just calm acceptance--and it's so lovely and I want more of that.
(This isn't to say that the panic route is bad, but it's nice to have variety, and see some more positivity I guess).

Seeing this makes me feel better. I wrote some books and I worried because they don't have and aren't about that gay panic, people think they aren't good LGBT books. Like, everyone is writing coming out/coming to terms with being gay or bi stories and I'm just over here writing about two guys building a relationship and dealing with other personal issues, without all that stuff. ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ Then again, someone did say one of my books is like yaoi, so maybe I shouldn't be so happy to use this comment on a yaoi manga to make myself feel better.... ㄟ(ツ)ㄏ

I think it's important to have stuff about coming out for people who may be going through something similar and can empathize with that, but it's also important to have stuff that's not about that at all--and I guess show the "it gets better" side of things? How LGBT people are as normal as anyone else and are allowed to have love stories/personal development that's not totally focused on their sexuality... how the world can and should be kind. That's my take at least, as an asexual. Best of luck with your books, I'm sure they're great!! :)

Yubin has he excuse of believing his feelings are one-sided but wow, Shin-Ginu is the worst kind of person because he more or less /knows/ that Yubin likes him, and yet refuses to say anything and continues to lead him on. I don't understand why he thinks Yubin has to be the one to confess first. He also doesn't seem to understand the boundaries of CONSENSUAL SEX versus coercion/rape (you do NOT ignore your partner's insistence on wearing protection, you do NOT lie to them about it, and you definitely don't start up some kind of S&M kink without explicit permission/use of safe words!!!). He's very lucky that Yubin is head over heels for him and goes along with it all but wow, what a dick.

I think it's a game for him, and that he want to have the "Position of power" it actually pretty common in Straight Relationship. it's like if you confess, you lose that position of power. what I find totally stupid!!!
and here it is extreme, so I hated Shin-Ginu from the very start of the comic that he start to play games with the other guy. it just annoying -.- and I don't care if they be together anymore or not.
Aahh I want to read a little more of them... so cute. I love the brothers' relationship.