lovely-thing's Things

its in A LOT of chinese manhuas and webnovels, that "my-man-is-such-a-sweetheart-i-dont-get-why-everyone-says-hes-scary~" type of couple, is it just a minority of people who dislike it, cause when i see the comments everyone eats it up, like really ????? the fl is always portrayed as strong and cool, but she becomes a ditzy love idiot when her man is with her, her IQ literally DROPS when he's in the room ; mls are also trash, evil fuckers with everyone but their 'little angel', like at least be a decent person ??!! i read one where the ml threatens to GANGRAPE the villainess if she doesn't leave the fl alone, and mind you SHE'S PREGNANT WHEN THAT HAPPENS

I don't even know why, but i can't bring myself to read yaoi anymore, like i used to read so much of it in like 2021, but at one point around like 2023 i just stopped. it's not even because the stories r bad, i like a lot of them, but i don't feel the same excitement. i used to enjoy yaoi and yuri at the same frequency, but now it's just 99% yuri and 1% yaoi and that 1% is just here because i read banana fish and svsss, does that happen to anybody else here ?

not kink shaming, just asking why it's so prevalent in like porn or like media in general ? When I used to read 'porn mangas' and just browse the popular section, I would only see stuff like "lady cheated on her husband for her ugly boss" or "girl cheats on her bf with a jock" and when the husband appeared, his peepee was always tied up, like damn, do something dude !!
Again, im not kink shaming u if u like that, but i'm just curious about the whole thing.
( i would've asked on reddit, but i refuse to go back to that site :((( )