You know what I love abt this manhwa?
It shows the positive side of marriage, how it can affect you and your partner, how it can both build you and your relationship between each other, how you see things not only through your perception but your perception as two combined individuals. You see even though it'll always have a rough part on ur relationship, you can be assured and comforted that at the end of the day you'll have someone you can trust wholly to be considered as your partner to protect your vulnerabilities and have someone to be with to get through it all, that's what I think the most reassuring part of marriage. Though it may not happen to the fl's parents before, you can always have the choice to not be that way, the same as them, it just needs time, acceptance, commitment and love to do so as ur foundation, on rebuilding that trust again. That's what I get here hehe. I love how consistent and fully committed the ml is to the fl that made her to trust again, to believe on marriage again.
I'm here for the angst and the character development of the fmc. Romance aside, I think the dialogues and the plot with regards her family issues is great enough to forget about the romance itself. I'm invested to her angst interactions with her fam than the romance, but it's not that I don't care. I'm just more hooked on her family circumstances aside the others. I'm loving this.
This really hits home ngl. This manga is living my dream, I feel like crying โฅ๏นโฅ I was treated the same as her up until now and just to share with you I've been overweight ever since I was a child, through time I've gotten used to all the teasing and mocking but for front face sake only, deep inside some really left a mark. I've been told 'yuck' or 'disgusting' by my crushes before (even tho I didn't personally confess) only through rumors tho and I hated myself for liking them. I'm a girl too, but with a different form of shape, I don't need to be liked but hoped to be only respected and appreciated not from physical appearance, cause I know I wouldn't be seen that way. I longed to be loved as who I am but now even tho I say it out loud to my friends and families, the trauma was still there making it so hard to see myself to be with someone. This is my life, questioning who I deserve and what do I deserve. I've got my anxieties and insecurities on, so this manga really helped me have a positive outlook on myself and I'm grateful of that, really.










Jujustsu Kaisen in borderland.