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This is lovers without benefits and I’m so heartbroken over his realisation that he wants more and obviously can’t have more.

We love a rich daddy with a bad attitude and a soft spot for our baby

Jaehyuk is straight and yet he’s more proud of being garams bf than his ex was despite the ex being gay. Jaehyuk was also extremely homophobic at the start so it’s not like Jaehyuk didn’t have reason to want to hide his gay relationship from people. It’s not about sexuality. Jaehyuk values garam OVER what other people view of him. The ex never understood that and that’s why he sucks.

I hate the ex gf in the past. I hate this whole “I did xyz and I expect xyz in return!” Mentality. It really detracts from the actual kindness of doing these things. Also he’s right. He actually never asked. As flawed as he was and as self centred as he was back then, when someone tells you they are scared or uncomfortable, you should listen to them. You shouldn’t judge them for it. If she wants to know what he is like as a person, she should have held a safe space for him to explore who he is with her and then not judge him for it. Uyun does that for him. Uyun loves him exactly as he is. He has no preconceptions of who his bf should be. He has no expectations for his partner at all. He has standards and holds his bf to those standards but that’s it. That’s a healthy relationship. She was not healthy and hasn’t changed at all. She still thinks it’s all about her. It’s not. You wanna date a younger traumatised BOY and then question why he’s emotionally immature??? That’s on you bitch. That’s not how this works. As for love, he probably started out loving you until you became what his father was. Normalise supporting people by asking what they want and need and only doing that much. Normalise supporting people by prioritising efforts and not the result (especially academics). Normalise supporting people by holding no expectations and only having personal standards. Expectations are shackles to control a person. Standards are like a cover fee to enter a building.

Have all of them escort you! RH this bish up! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Having a child is a 2 yes or 1 no situation. One person said no so it’s a no. End of discussion. There’s no budging from that until the person who said no feels differently. Don’t try to convince someone who is not yet ready to have a child to sacrifice their own happiness and career progression and time and energy. That’s the bottom line.

If you want a child and it’s not an option for right now, get a dog or a cat or a bunny. If you can successfully raise that pet and your partner can see that it won’t be affecting their happiness and career progression in a negative way, they might change their mind on it. But there’s never a rush for babies. Despite what people love to say, the quality of the child does not depend on the mother’s eggs. It depends on the father’s sperm. The egg does not expire. The sperm slowly loses its numbers and its vitality because the man (the one that has to create and produce sperm) loses vitality. A man who wants to father a child should work out regularly, switch to a healthier diet full of stamina foods and taking supplements. They should hydrate well and take care of their mental health because hormones absolutely do affect the whole body. Forcing an unhappy and anxious man to father kids when he doesn’t yet feel stable is only going to cause the baby to have issues. And he’s not wrong about childbirth deaths. Number 1 cause of death to women and child bearing people was childbirth and in many places in the world, it still is the number 1 cause. The chainsaw was designed specifically for the purpose of cutting the pelvic bone to make birthing easier. You cannot tell me that driving is more dangerous than childbirth when the chainsaw was created for birthing. Also you shouldn’t be rushing into having children without reading any research into it, reading any parent books, attending any parent classes, speaking to doctors about how to boost your own health in order for the child to be as healthy as possible, etc. If you want children, great! Do it when you’re in a stable position and can afford not only the costs but the time you need to take off for the child.

Sorry that was kinda long ╥﹏╥

I’m actually of the opinion that the king was in the wrong. He’s free to love whoever he wants but fathering another kid KNOWING that his youngest child has lived their whole life sacrificing the one thing their people were rightfully entitled to (freedom) is so selfish and cruel. The fact they never used protection and he never got snipped after his youngest with the Queen is so stupid. I find their whole culture stupid because this is exactly why it’s typically the eldest that becomes heir since no one can argue with or change who the oldest is. Two oldest two children get lessons in royal etiquette and leading and that’s that. Now I’m not for stabbing a child still in the womb but I have no issues with the Queen stabbing the attendant who found out they were pregnant and didn’t immediately abort. Queens have killed mistresses for less. She was understanding of their love and that was more than they deserved considering how many children the king and queen had and you can see the Queen did love the king. Everyone ended up a victim to the kings selfishness.

Are you seriously jealous of her cheating lying bastard of an ex??? He’s AN EX!! Aka in the past!! Aka wasn’t worthy of her time and energy and got kicked to the curb! You won her! I get being jealous of someone better than you or someone who makes your partner feel the same things you make them feel but grow tf up. A cheating ex???? I’m disgusted and disturbed. Also him blaming her for her not telling him when his reaction is EXACTLY what she said it would be and why she didn’t wanna tell him in the first place is so disgustingly icky that I have half a mind to demand she leave him… and then dnf this book. DO BETTER ASSHOLE!

However… I hope she gets found out for having the doctors sons baby and then loses said baby and then gets imprisoned and dies. I also hope the count finds out he’s shooting blanks and he’s useless both as a man and a human and that he dies a horrible painful death for treason.

You were never man enough to put her in her soft feminine era. You were such a bitch that she had to step up to the plate to handle all the things YOU as her man should have handled and now you’re gonna be butthurt because you’re now realising that she is cute and she is feminine and she CAN rely on others but not YOU. Never with YOU. I hope that knowledge eats away at your every fibre.

I need someone to throw salt on this bitch ass ex.