Guys he didn't groom him, he literally left Alois alone. It was said "he returned" and he didn't like the child, he likes the older Alois who made the wish because the adult Alois love him for who he was (gay)!
and I kin her so much, my characteristics, anxiousness etc is similar to mine
my hair in high school & right now (long) was similar to her, I hang out too with my high school first love during that time (tho we didn't end up together) which made it so relatable ghad
I just know we all cheered when granny passed