
Wait so I kinda get that they're on nearly equal footing of trashiness:
-->the seme who was forced by the uke to accept a job he despised and forced to play along the needs of a father (who had abandoned him and left him for dead with a mentally unstable mother surely to lead them both to poverty and destroy any hope for a future he may have) who he truly hated and wished not to remember.
-->His and the uke's relationship has, whether however crappy had uke's consent all along. UKE said seme could do ANYTHING to him whether that was pushing him off a cliff or an unwanted sexual relationship while he was obviously drugged. It's like those bad s&m relationships on wattpad with no safe word and 0 precautions.
-->the uke had at the start pushed his delusional ideals on the seme and so called loyalty towards his dad onto the seme
-->the poor uke who has had to go through-and I don't think I even need to explain this-EVERYTHING the seme has put him through.
--> Honestly a lot of the problems surface from the dad to make a last ditch effort to ease his guilt and consider himself a father. He could have easily appointed uke as the ceo (since he deserved it more obviously) but nOoO we want to make two unrelated people suffer.
-->Seme's obviously the worse person of the two no doubt.
-->morally, the seme should ould try to understand that it's not the uke who set up the contract and respect that but in the same way the uke also should respect that the seme wants no part in his crappy so called fathers plans and leave him the f*ck alone.
-->that still doesn't erase the fact that this is a tERRIBLE foundation for any kind of relationship I would rather pour bleach over my eyes than forget everything they've done to each other.

To be honest, I get it. I get why Hee-won and Doojoon are having this problem and it's quite common problem I've come to realize in my relationships too. We all fundamentally grow up to different definitions of both love, happiness and futures. Heewon has grown up to a different idea of rearing a child than Doojoon has. Even from first glance, you could see his family as one of comfort, contentment and wholesomeness. They were two adults who respected and adored each other and fully decided to have a kid. Doojoon's perception of her is also the same: someone he respects and adores to no end, and wants to spend the rest of his life with. That IS why he decided to raise a child with her, that's what he defines as the woman he wants to take responsibility with. While Hee-won was raised in a chaotic and traumatic household. She sees the whole idea of having a child in a grim and pessimistic light. Her idea of childrearing is of bare tolerance and enforeced responsibility. Which you could see at a glance in her few momories of her family life and childhood.
Is it bad I've already started feeling bad enough for him? Maybe it's cause I've been in a similar situation growing up lying to overachiever parents I just.. I get that feeling of suffocation and constant anxiety following you around hovering like those big ugly temple run 2 monsters..