I am screaming in both Bi and still single language. I dont know the exact translation. (︶︿︶)
A trigger warning for discussion about sex and asult.
In the comments below people were discussing slut shaming and other stuff, so I'll just throw in my dime.
First I personally believe that calling anybody a slut and other slurs of that nature is really dangerous, since it just perpetuates the stigma. That includes sex workers, since that work is also not just fun and games and the statistics that I have seen (not an expert here, just telling what i have read) that sex workers have a higher chance of be
being asulted.
Plus if both parties are concenting adults who ether are not in a active relationship or are not moganomus and realize the risks of unprotected an also protected sex. There should be no problem and it shouldn't be eny body's problem.
Although i do have a bit of a problem whith the first chapters, since one of the party's didn't give clear concent before the act, afterwards it was made clear, that it wasn't an issue. Still it should never be done in real life, before getting CLEAR concent, of both parties.
Sorry if this was a bit long, but for some reason I really wanted to give my two cents about this topic.
Thank you so much and I am open to any discussion. (￣∇￣")
If you actually read into it deeper. This all stems from the patriarchy and how women are always seen as "sluts" when they choose to sleep with multiple partners. In a mlm relationship the bottom or in other words the person "receiving" can parallel a woman in a straight relationship. Women are bottoms (typically) and ukes are too. A lot of people don't understand that the image of "the naive inexperienced virgin" has implanted in our minds throughout history to almost expect the receiving to embody this image and remain submissive to only one man. I'm almost certain patriarchy is to blame here!
But yes I agree with everything you said!
Thank you so much for reading my rant and I also compleatly agree with you. I think it goes even deaper than patriarchy and sometimes is almost an instinct to protect. Its like A bunny that seems cute, but then you realise that their nails are really sharp. I don't know if i make any sense, but i think this topic is really interesting. We are also tought that we should protect the weak and religion also often times promote purity culture. I am NOT saying every religious person thinks that an experienced person is a slut, but the teachings of verginity in many diferent cultures are still there
Oh yes 100%! Religion, culture, patriarchy, history etc. These all play a part in this mindset we all seem to accept. The instinct to protect something that's small, weaker and pure, like a woman, a child and in this case the uke has always been a large part of our culture in all areas of the world. Purity culture definitely plays a huge part. Yes a lot of these point play a role. Men are just inherently on the top bc they're viewed as the "protector" and that's why I feel like when people like our uke, who can be seen as weak and in need of protection here is actually independent and has control of his body and makes his own decisions, a lot of people probably dont like that bc it disrupts their expectations maybe?
YES! Thank goodness you understood what I meant. I do think that maybe there is a bit of cognitive dissanence. (i don't know how to spell. Sorry) sometimes it is not even malicious, but when we are talking about people who loudly slut shame, it can also be a way hor someone to prove themselves that they are better
It is so interesting to talk to you!
You're completely right! Sex has always been seen as this taboo topic when it's not. Sex literally creates life like c'mon! I am no way encouraging people to go & start having sex out in the open but sex can be a very pleasurable experience and when people are slut shaming the uke in here, I find it disheartening because I can understand why he would like to find pleasure in many different people. Everyone is different, some people like sleeping with different people for the experience and some like sleeping only with one person and that's ok! It only becomes a problem when people judge them for it. :)
Haha likewise. You're very open-minded and sound really smart! Love this discussion we're having :)
I agree. If they are both concenting adults, who don't harm anyboady ense and stay safe and protected, than having diferent partners, who concent is a valid way to explore themselves, what gives them plesure, what they dont like, how to intaract and also experiment. You have to firstly know what you yourself like to know how to give to another. For that there are many valid ways to experiment both alona and together. Puting others down for that olny slows down their and your growth
Kara, lets get together for a pint of beer!!!!!!!!
(i,m writing this while drinking one. Who wants to join?)
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I can’t handle alcohol but *raises a club soda*
All drinks are welcomed! Join in!
Sooo, I hate myself for saying this, buuuut,
Where are his nipples?
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WHEEZIN'
Lmfbaoooooo
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
They too tired to draw it hahaha
I literally had to go back and see it for myself LOL
Never trust a man without nipples
2020 be like...
right?
NEVER!!
In a real BDSM releationship most of the time the sub is actualy in control of the situation and can recend their consent at eny point !!! This is SO unhealthy! STOOOP (￣ε(#￣)Σ
the last page of the chapter was so amasing, i actualy mad it my wallpaper. It fits perfectly! This is just mesmerising!
(sorry for my english) ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
I have a new point on my list of female crushes!!!!(▰˘◡˘▰)